When you ask the Almighty for something, ask with confidence. Ask with positivity. He always hears and knows what is best for you. If what He gave you seemed like a NO to your request, understand that He has something much better in store. Embrace what you have and look ahead!
When helping others, do so sincerely, from your heart, not expecting anything in return from them. Do it with utmost respect, not in a derogatory way, making them feel small or less in stature. Maintain dignity and self-respect at all times. May the Almighty accept our deeds!