stay away from people who make life even more difficult
how will yall ever get to soaring in the sky if you’re constantly putting out fires on the ground
I think friend betrayal hurts worse than betrayal from a partner because friendships are usually built on choice not obligation. A romantic relationship comes with expectations, jealousy, conflict, and the possibility that things might not work out. But a friend is someone who chooses to be in your life without any of that. They see your highs your lows & your insecurities, your wins, and often know parts of you your partner doesn’t. So when a friend betrays you, it can feel like they had a front row seat to your life and still chose to move against you. It’s not just losing a person it’s losing trust, memories, loyalty, and sometimes the version of yourself that felt safe with them. That’s why for me friend betrayal leaves a wound that’s harder to explain and longer to heal.
what’s even more hilarious is that they actually clown the fuck out of you for sleeping with them for nothing. That’s why you just gotta close your ears when they talk
a solid man nor good woman will fall out of the sky into your lap
neither will a stable career
great friends
Or fun experiences
U have to become the type of person these things happen to/for
Which is a good thing!
Bc it encourages inner work
Plus, u don’t want the things that life has to offer that u didn’t EARN via challenging yourself to evolve