sometimes i accidentally accept the bare minimum trying to be considerate of what others are going through and that is a habit i need to let go of expeditiously
I hate it when people say
If you love me, you'll accept me as I am.
Loving you doesn't mean tolerating your refusal to develop emotional intelligence and heal your dysfunction.
If you loved you, you would do the work so people who love you don't feel forced to walk away.
I don’t like when people try to paint you as the villain but never tell the entire story. They leave out how they treated you. They leave out what pushed you to finally step back.
They skip over everything you tolerated while still showing up genuine and solid.
Good people don’t switch up for no reason. They just get tired of giving to people who never knew how to value them.
a woman cannot be your peace if you are not creating the environment that allows her to be at peace with herself. you can’t continuously give her problems and instability, then expect her to become your place of comfort. peace can only exist where safety and security are present.
When I become a wife, one of my greatest priorities will be to create a home my man can't wait to return to. A place where he feels deeply respected, loved, valued and completely at peace.
sometimes you try to give someone what they never had… patience… softness… real love… and then you slowly realize why they never had it in the first place. some people don’t know how to hold something healthy without trying to break it.
When a woman tells you the things that bothers her, it's because she still want you in her life. A SILENT WOMAN is a TIRED woman, and when she get TIRED, she's ready to leave.
Dear Lord,
Today, I give You what ain’t pretty. I give You the dreams I downgraded just to keep my sanity. I give You the days I didn’t pray because I didn’t feel like lying. I give You the version of me that knows how to fake a comeback but still cries when nobody’s watching. Let survival stop being my story. Let the blessing fit me—not bury me. I ask You to flip the script so hard, even my struggle don’t recognize me. In Jesus name. Amen🙏🏾