This past year, few months and few days, God has really been showing me the era of, “If you genuinely stay with Me, i will take you places”.
Bro I’m here for it all. No matter the circumstance I’m staying with my Maker.☺️❤️
I believe that sexual sin is a stronghold that can be rooted in many things such as demons, trauma, and the desire for intimacy that is greatly misdirected.
Ultimately, I believe the root to sexual sin is the desire for intimacy and wholeness-becoming one flesh as woman were taken out of the rib or side of a man.
When God created Eve from Adam’s rib, He took a part of Adam out of his body and gave it to Eve . Then he tells them that when they come together, they become one flesh.
God in His grace has allowed this beautiful one flesh union to create life.
We desire for this holy union because it is natural done in the correct confounds of the marriage bed that is laid out between one man and one woman-a covenant spouse to point to the greater reality found in Christ.
We are also told that all things are made through and for Jesus. When Jesus’s side (rib) was pierced, and blood and water came out so was his bride birthed as well.
To tie this all together, I believe that in its most simple and raw form sexual sin is the souls cry for intimacy.
The solution for the soul’s desire for love is first found in Christ and then expressed in the marriage bed.
Anything outside of this is defiling by nature because it’s outside of God’s design.

It’s essentially defiling his temple.
Until we grasp this, I believe that we will circle the sin and shame drain not understand understanding why we desire intimacy.

God has given us the gift of intimacy first with himself (in the spirit) and then with our covenant spouse (in the flesh).
It must be redirected in its correct order or else it is just an itch that needs to be scratched in the flesh opening up all sorts of doors that can absolutely lead to demons, strongholds and perversions.
God is fully able to satisfy us in the spirit and fill us to the brim of fullness with the fruit of the spirit, which includes self control.
Alongside Christ, we are able to overcome sexual sin and temptations.
When we cleave to Jesus, and we understand that he is our first love-it’s much easier to reach for him for help during those moments where we feel led in temptation.
The Bible tells us that he always gives us way out of temptation.
When we experience the refreshment of his spirit - this removes our desire to itch sinful urges in the flesh.
I believe this is the only way we are able to overcome.
I have found walking with Christ is not behavior modification, but rather full transformation by way of His Spirit and this sin is no different.
He is fully able to change our desires from our sinful flesh nature to only what pleases him
I CAN TELL YOU THIS WITH SO MUCH CONFIDENCE STOP WATCHING PORNOGRAPHY AND MASTURBATING AND SEE A DRASTIC CHANGE IN YOUR LIFE!
Some of you can be very productive, but you are in this cage, and the devil has used it to put you into constant delay and stagnation.
You have a spiritual calling to fulfil, a business to build, a family to lead, and a destiny to walk into, but you cannot afford to keep feeding habits that are draining your discipline and distracting you from your purpose.
Break free from pornography and masturbation. Watch how your finances change, your business grows, you begin enjoying your marriage, doors start opening, your prayer life is restored, and your spiritual life becomes stronger.
Romans 12:2 — Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.
MAKE THIS DECISION TODAY!
Do this for the next 6 months, and come back to this post to testify in the comment section about what has changed in your life!
SIX MONTHS OF DISCIPLINE. SIX MONTHS OF INTENTIONAL CHANGE. LET YOUR TESTIMONY SPEAK! 🔥
STOP WATCHING PORNOGRAPHY AND MASTURBATING AND SEE A DRASTIC CHANGE IN YOUR LIFE!
Some of you can be very productive, but you are in this cage, and the devil has used it to put you into constant delay and stagnation.
You have a spiritual calling to fulfil, a business to build, a family to lead, and a destiny to walk into, but you cannot afford to keep feeding habits that are draining your discipline and distracting you from your purpose.
Break free from pornography and masturbation. Watch how your finances change, your business grows, you begin enjoying your marriage, doors start opening, your prayer life is restored, and your spiritual life becomes stronger.
Romans 12:2 — Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.
MAKE THIS DECISION TODAY!
Do this for the next 6 months, and come back to this post to testify in the comment section about what has changed in your life!
SIX MONTHS OF DISCIPLINE. SIX MONTHS OF INTENTIONAL CHANGE. LET YOUR TESTIMONY SPEAK! 🔥
To the Christian secretly battling pornography and masturbation:
You are not beyond the reach of God's grace. Don't let shame convince you to hide from the very Saviour you need.
Bring your struggle to God. Seek wise support. Take the next step towards freedom.
Before you marry someone, make sure you understand the family you’re marrying into.
Because whether we admit it or not, a lot of who we are today is a product of how we were raised.
And sometimes, the things you consider normal are completely different from what your partner considers normal.
So, beyond asking about their favourite food, love language, and financial goals, ask the uncomfortable questions.
What are their family’s cultural values and expectations?
What are their views on childbearing? What happens if you cannot have biological children?
Are you both open to adoption? Is IVF an option?
What does “normal delivery” mean to each of you? Are there expectations around childbirth that could put pressure on your partner?
If you cannot have children, is a second wife an option in their family’s thinking? Would your partner ever consider it?
How much influence will their parents and extended family have in your marriage?
These conversations may be uncomfortable, but imagine discovering these differences only after you’ve said “I do.”
You are not just marrying someone’s present reality; you need to understand the beliefs, values, and expectations that have shaped them.
Love is important, but love alone will not answer questions you were both too afraid to ask.
What is one question you believe every couple should discuss before marriage but people often avoid?
As a single,
If you constantly ignore the love language of your closest friends under the guise of spirituality,
You’re preparing yourself to have a rocky marriage that may fail except for God’s mercy, and you may never have lasting friendships.
There is a way people interpret love, and you must be selfless enough to study your partner and circle and know what it is.
Sometimes, don’t pray just ‘anyhow’, seriously sit still and seriously ask God and say “God, what do you want for me? What’s for my life?” Seriously, sternly, exactly. And don’t get up from your knees till something moves. Do it. Life is getting serious, you don’t have any time.
HOW TO USE THE WORD OF GOD TO OVERCOME PORNOGRAPHY, MASTURBATION AND SEXUAL IMMORALITY
One of the weapons God has given us to overcome sexual temptation is His Word. Jesus overcame the temptations of the devil by responding with Scripture: “It is written.” (Matthew 4:1–11).
When sexual thoughts come, do not entertain them. Turn to the Word of God, meditate on it, declare it and act on it.
1. When sexual thoughts come, use Galatians 2:20.
“I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me...” — Galatians 2:20 (NKJV).
Pray: Father, in the name of Jesus, I belong to Christ. My old life was crucified with Him. I refuse to allow the desires of my flesh to rule over me. Christ lives in me, and I choose to honour Him with my thoughts, my body and my actions. Let the life of Christ be manifested in me. Amen!
2. When the urge to watch pornography comes, use Job 31:1.
“I have made a covenant with my eyes...” — Job 31:1 (NKJV).
Declare: My eyes belong to the Lord. I will not deliberately feed my eyes with what corrupts my mind and fuels lust. I choose to turn away from impure images and set my eyes on things that honour God.
Then take action: Close the website, remove the content, unfollow accounts that trigger you and put your phone away if necessary.
3. When temptation feels overwhelming, use 1 Corinthians 10:13.
“God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able...” — 1 Corinthians 10:13 (NKJV).
Pray: Father, Your Word says You are faithful. Show me the way of escape from this temptation. Give me the strength to walk away instead of entertaining these desires. I receive Your grace to make the right choice, even when my flesh desires otherwise.
Remember, God provides a way of escape, but you must choose to take it.
4. When your mind is filled with sexual imaginations, use Philippians 4:8.
“Whatever things are pure... meditate on these things.” — Philippians 4:8 (NKJV).
Declare: My mind will not become a playground for impure imaginations. I choose to redirect my thoughts towards what is true, pure and pleasing to God. Holy Spirit, help me to discipline my thought life and meditate on the Word of God.
Do not simply try to stop thinking about something. Replace those thoughts with Scripture, worship, prayer or another wholesome activity.
5. When you feel enslaved by a recurring habit, use John 8:36.
“Therefore if the Son makes you free, you shall be free indeed.” — John 8:36 (NKJV).
Pray: Lord Jesus, I look to You for freedom. Teach me to walk in the freedom You give. Break the patterns of secrecy, compromise and repeated sin in my life. Give me the courage to seek accountability and the discipline to remove the things that keep drawing me back. Help me to walk in obedience, one decision at a time. Amen!
6. When you need strength to resist the desires of the flesh, use Galatians 5:16.
“Walk in the Spirit, and you shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh.” — Galatians 5:16 (NKJV).
Declare: Holy Spirit, lead me today. Help me to recognise temptation early and respond with obedience. Develop in me self-control, discipline and a genuine love for holiness. I choose to walk in the Spirit rather than surrender to the desires of my flesh.
HERE IS THE KEY:
Do not wait until temptation has overwhelmed you before you remember the Word of God.
When the thought comes, respond with Scripture. When the urge comes, pray with Scripture. When you are alone and vulnerable, meditate on Scripture. When you stumble, repent, receive God's forgiveness and return to obedience.
Jesus said in John 17:17, “Sanctify them by Your truth. Your word is truth.”
The Word of God must become your response to temptation, not merely something you read when you are feeling spiritual.
Read it. Meditate on it. Declare it. Obey it.
And remember Galatians 2:20: It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me.
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I am so passionate about talking about PURITY because I have been a victim of sexual immorality myself. I will never stand here and tell you that it is a good thing.
You can spend 30 minutes or one hour with a woman who is not your wife, thinking you are having fun and enjoying life. You experience temporary pleasure, but you may not realise the emotional, spiritual, and relational consequences of the choices you are making.
Even if you use condoms, as I did, they can reduce the risk of pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections, but they cannot protect you from every consequence of your choices.
You can masturbate and ejaculate, thinking it is normal and harmless, without realising how compulsive sexual habits can affect your mind, your relationships, and your spiritual life.
I have fornicated. I have masturbated. I have watched pornography. I was trapped in that cycle for a very long time. It was a prison I struggled to escape from.
Do you know what it means to sneak out of school because you want to be in the arms of a woman? Looking back, I ask myself, what kind of bondage was I living in?
But today, I can testify that God has delivered me from sexual immorality and the bondage of lust. I am not sharing this because I have never struggled. I am sharing it because I know what it means to struggle, and I know that freedom is possible through Jesus Christ.
If you are reading this and battling lust, pornography, masturbation, or sexual immorality, please do not give up on yourself. You are not beyond the reach of God's grace. You can be free. You can begin again. Your past does not have to determine your future.
Young people, if you are still virgins, protect your purity with everything you have. Do not allow peer pressure, curiosity, temporary pleasure, or the desire to be accepted to push you into decisions you may later regret. Your body matters. Your future matters. Your relationship with God matters.
Sexual immorality can bring painful consequences into people's lives, including broken relationships, emotional struggles, unhealthy attachments, and spiritual distraction. Some people enter marriage carrying patterns of sexual behaviour and unrealistic expectations formed before marriage. Instead of learning to love and be satisfied with their spouses, they continue seeking satisfaction outside the marriage.
This is why we must talk about purity before people get married, not only after their marriages begin to experience problems.
Let me give some advice to those preparing for marriage.
If you have been sexually involved with multiple partners, take time to heal, repent where necessary, establish healthy boundaries, and allow God to work in your heart. Address unhealthy emotional attachments and patterns from previous relationships. Seek godly counsel if you need help. Do not carry unresolved wounds and destructive habits into marriage and expect your spouse to fix everything.
People often call these attachments soul ties. Whatever language you use, it is important to understand that past relationships can leave emotional wounds and unhealthy patterns that need to be addressed. You do not have to live under the influence of your past.
And please understand this: your past does not automatically condemn your marriage to failure. In Christ, there is forgiveness, healing, restoration, and the grace to build a healthy relationship.
The same God who delivered me can help you too.
You do not have to remain in that cage. You do not have to keep returning to the same sin. You do not have to allow lust to rule your life.
Jesus Christ still sets people free!
“Therefore if the Son makes you free, you shall be free indeed.” — John 8:36 (NKJV)
PURITY IS POSSIBLE. FREEDOM IS POSSIBLE. RESTORATION IS POSSIBLE.
May God raise a generation that does not just talk about Jesus but also pursues holiness, honours God with their bodies, and refuses to be enslaved by temporary pleasure.
You can be free, in Jesus' name.
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Pornography and masturbation are connected to the spirit of delay and stagnation. A number of people who masturbate struggle to build something constructive in their lives. They keep losing in business and in almost everything they do.
That is how the devil has kept some people in a cage. They have dreams, visions, and great potential, but they remain trapped in cycles that keep them from moving forward.
Deal with masturbation and pornography. Break free from these habits and take your purity seriously. As you overcome these struggles, you can regain your focus, rebuild your discipline, and give your dreams the attention they deserve.
You cannot keep entertaining what is destroying your discipline and expect to build the life you desire.
The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 6:12, “I will not be brought under the power of any.”
You were not created to be a slave to your desires. You can break free through Christ Jesus!
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