The best skill I've developed is figuring out how to stay in a good mood even when there’s so many reasons I could be in a bad one. when you start doing this you don’t have bad days you have bad moments in a good day.
me, crazy? i found out he was cheating and instead of crashing out i screenshotted the proof, made a fake account and told him to pay me or i’ll tell his gf. he paid me within 18 mins.
my mom once told me “accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others” and that shit is real.
I'm 54.
I wasted 24 years learning this the hard way. But I'll teach you in 5 minutes.
If you're soft, stop reading now.
Here are 24 uncomfortable truths I wish I knew earlier: