@TheBrometheus The parents that were in and out off my life since birth.
Had a major breakthrough in therapy: I've always known that as a child I was not responsible for my safety. For the first time in my life, I actually believe it!
Legacy comes from human impact. Children are a huge part of most men's legacy. A healthy family breeds a healthy legacy.
If you are secretly terrified of trusting women, and you treat your wife or GF like your enemy and manage her through manipulation, your legacy is ☠️
At the end of a life, it's the things you didn't invest in that bring the biggest regrets.
Which is why redpill gurus are arrogant right up until their midlife crisis where they suddenly want to talk about family and morals and all of the things they pissed on for 20 years.
Manipulative avoidant attachment style says: "I can never trust any other human being to act in good faith with me. Everyone else is innately evil. So I manage them to be good. I just have to be a little more moral than I assume they'd be if they got the chance to exploit me..."
@guildofdads @TheBrometheus TRP promotes anxiety and rebelliousness among men who need help in learning how to have better relationships with women not learn to hate them. And the fact that it advocates for the manipulation and dominance of women is gross.
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All that is good about redpill is drawn from evolutionary psychology.
All that is bad about redpill comes from using evolutionary psychology to justify weaponizing avoidant attachment style against insecure women.
That's where people get confused, is separating those two parts.
@TheBrometheus I hurt my fair share of women after successfully using every tool the red pill community offers. It’s better when you approach the interaction with the mentality to do no harm.
It's called having done the research and being highly educated, not to mention over a decade of work with singles, couples, and families.
But any insecure lemming will take RP advice without question...
#SorryNotSorry#misogyny
Steps for women looking to get engaged:
1) Wear a nice sundress
2) Smile a lot
3) Carry a plate of bacon
4) When people mention the bacon say, “Yes, I made it.”
Men will instantly rate you far above the vast majority of modern women. This ain’t rocket science. It’s that simple.
First, be objective about your role in the problem.
A lot of men default to blaming themselves completely. Others run to ideologies like the redpill which excuse them from responsibility and make the woman seem evil.
Be objective about how much control you actually had.
"Fellas,
If you’re obsessed with appearing dominant and alpha, you’re not dominant or alpha.
You’ll just become domineering while looking fragile and weak.
And nobody likes an unstable tyrant."
~@TheBrometheus