UCAT Lawyer, LLM Tax Law, Georgetown University MBA, Diploma Candidate in Analytical Psychology at the CG Jung Institute, Zürich. Proud mom of Héctor & Eneas
Heroes por Venezuela🇻🇪
Nuestros muchachos han tenido que trabajar con la uñas ya que no hay herramientas ni insumos , ni procedimientos para salvamento.
En el país donde el régimen #cubano nos tiene prohibido a los nacionales abordar una embarcación con motor y circunvalar nuestras propias costas, han llegado unos "solidarios" por mar... el mismo mar que es barrote y cementerio para nosotros. #Cuba#SOSCuba
Como si 67 años de dictadura y penuria no fueran suficiente castigo, a los cubanos les ha caído una plaga: casi 700 gilipollas llegados de prósperas democracias para explicarles que el castrismo es lo mejor que les podría haber pasado
Vermú de tarde!
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The benefits of psychotherapy don’t come from self-disclosure. They come from working through inner obstacles (like shame and fear of judgment) to self-disclosure.
This work must happen in the therapy relationship. Take it outside the relationship and it’s no longer therapy.
Psychotherapy works because there is skin in the game. In all relationships, including psychotherapy, there is vulnerability and risk. You may feel shamed. You may be judged. You may be rejected.
Remove these risks and you remove the therapy. It becomes a meaningless illusion.
It’s the illusion that there is such a thing as connection without vulnerability. There isn’t. It’s the illusion of understanding, without risk of misunderstanding. It’s the illusion of facing emotional risks, without actual bravery.
It’s buying into a comforting lie.
Real psychotherapy is never a game of pretend. It’s never about comforting illusion in place of difficult truth. It’s about facing ourselves honestly, in a real relationship that comes with real risk.
This is how emotional change and growth happen.
The core defining feature of real psychotherapy is facing the truth, and telling the truth, and living the truth. Not living in illusion.
So many want a bypass. There is no bypass.
When people hold different views, it may be a difference in perspective. But it may also be a difference in *development*
One thing that indicates higher and lower levels of development (vs. mere difference) is asymmetry:
A 10-year-old understands the thought processes of a 5-year old, and understands where they go wrong. But the 5-year-old doesn’t understand the thought processes of the 10-year-old. That’s asymmetry
Likewise, an expert can understands how a non-expert thinks and comes to mistaken conclusions. But the non-expert doesn’t understand how the expert thinks
Not everything is just difference in perspective. There are real differences in development (e.g., knowledge, understanding, ability, thought, skill). Asymmetry is one indicator that a developmental trajectory exists
Higher levels recognize lower developmental levels. Lower levels cannot recognize higher levels. Research shows this. It’s called the Dunning-Kruger effect
One implication is that at low levels of development, there may be no recognition that expertise exists. This explains quite a lot.
Me permito soñar un poquito nuevamente. Es una batalla de pasos pequeños y agigantados. El principio de un nuevo capítulo. No conocemos el final de este desenlace pero sabemos que el sentir de la ciudadanía hoy plasmó en su voto su confianza y amor por @MariaCorinaYA.
Brava!
Hacía tiempo que no improvisaba un Himno Nacional. Aquí está la versión de hoy.
'No matter who you are or who you love, you too deserve dignity and equal treatment under the law' — Prior to Tuesday's vote on the Respect for Marriage Act, Senate Majority Leader Chuck Schumer explained why the bill is personal to him
Ahora nadie pone algo, lo coloca. Ahora no se dan los Buenos días o Buenas tardes, dicen Buen día y Buena tarde. Por supuesto, nadie cumpleaños, lo que hacen es darle una vuelta al sol. Ya nadie muere, ahora vuelan alto. La Neolengua, la llaman.
"Never has our future been more unpredictable, never have we depended so much on political forces that cannot be trusted to follow the rules of common sense and self-interest—forces that look like sheer insanity."
— Hannah Arendt
La cara que se me queda cuando explico a una pareja estable los riesgos de la vasectomía (anestesia local y muy bajo riesgo) y los de la esterilización tubárica o ligadura de trompas (cirugía mayor abdominal con anestesia general) y la respuesta de él es:
"Ella es más valiente."
@yolandapantin Pienso que esta empresa la puede ayudar: https://t.co/yTKWLwem3C se dedican precisamente a conducir el proceso de reclamos a la aerolínea. Es una empresa española, además.
"La soledad es peligrosa. Es adictiva. Una vez que te das cuenta de cuánta paz hay en ella, no quieres lidiar con la gente".
Carl Gustav Jung
#Fuedicho