@BalisoMlamli I agree with you. Cheating Is a choice and the consequences are dire. But I still maintain, my friend, not everyone who cheats does so with the aim and intent of losing the one they love. Unfortunately, it comes across to the 'cheatee' as if that's the case.
@BalisoMlamli Lol! You just reminded me of an argument I had with a good friend of mine on this topic. I had to go back to the origin of the word cheating. But that's a topic for another day. Ingathi ungavula iSpace and we discuss, this thing of being limited to a few characters to type iyadik
@BalisoMlamli We are talking about cheaters. We are not justifying anything. Just touching on that issue of whether they are scared of losing you or not. Cheating is cheating, period! But, let us not generalise the reasons behind it. We are different and so are our reasons for cheating.
@BalisoMlamli They know that they will lose you and they do not want to lose you. Also, they may not be strong enough to resist temptation. We're not perfect my friend, that's why I don't believe in the Black and White of life. I do agree that there are those who don't care, but not all