The person you marry will eventually annoy you. They will have flaws. They will change. They will disappoint you. You will do the same to them. That’s not proof you chose the wrong person. That’s proof you chose a human being.
If you want a man who’s always available, date an average man. Don’t chase an above average man and expect 24/7 access. He’s above average because his time is in demand.
Marriage is one of the few contracts where someone can walk away from the agreement and still claim a reward from the person who stayed.
Think about that.
Men carry burdens they often cannot even put into words. Now imagine carrying the weight of the world every day, only to come home to no peace, no softness, and no emotional safety. Even the strongest man will eventually break.
We have said this hundreds of times,
Once you have sex with a woman and she becomes pregnant,
• Accept responsibility,
• Do not force the woman to abort,
• If the woman elects to abort, leave her, dump her,
• Do not kill a woman just because she has refused to abort,
Abortion is a spiritual transgression, and no matter how long you hide it, it will haunt you for life.
Something else,
If you make your other woman pregnant, own it up. Don't fear your current woman.
Don't harm the other woman to please your current one.
However, if you know you are not ready for the consequences, then,
• Wear a condom
Or,
• Abstain
Are we angels?
NO.
Are we MEN?
Yes.
Men are rational and logical people who control their emotions and are aware that choices and actions have consequences.
CHANGE or PERISH.
She came for Mbappé first. He clapped back. Now suddenly it’s being framed as gender based violence? Accountability shouldn’t disappear just because the response wasn’t what she expected.
Men,
Most men think they have a masturbation problem.
They don't.
They have a self-awareness problem.
You can't solve what you refuse to accept.
The journey of freedom begins with one question:
"Why am I doing this?"
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Men,
Learn to thrive and survive alone,
People will abandon you,
Your woman will abandon you,
But your spirit will NOT,
But your inner strength will NOT.
Be your own anchor.
YOU ARE A MAN
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Being single is cheaper for men. Being in a relationship is cheaper for women. Marriage is where a man starts carrying the real financial weight. Since he is carrying all that responsibility, the least you can offer is peace.