Mikayla Fansler

when the power of love overcomes the love of power the world will know peace

[sums @melkteethie]

fat girl summer

[Mikayla Fansler @mnm7891]

you about to shine, i was just the spark

[eliz @eliza___v]

when someone asks me about the last two years but it's been filled with nothing but lessons about the art of letting go

[pinkie @sourberryvi]

“are you sexually active” pal the only thing that eats me out is guilt

[normal person @Trollacoaster]

my sexual fantasy is being your first choice

[MACÈO MULAN @maceomulan]

this is the intimacy i crave 😫🫶🏽

[kare @droolyy]

i rly miss the love that we had

[Mew 𓆩♡𓆪 @IrianaMew]

just for once i want someone to be afraid of losing me..

[ْ @0lfy_37]

私と離れたら死んじゃいそうな人と付き合いたい

[Lammy @Lammyisback]

The Avoidant Cycle
They get close, then panic.
They crave connection, then create distance.
They say they want love, but fear what it requires.
They miss you, but don't reach out.
They feel lonely, but avoid intimacy.
They want peace, but chase chaos.
They push away the very thing that could heal them.

[Lammy @Lammyisback]

6 SIGNS AN AVOIDANT LOVES YOU

Avoidants don't express love in obvious ways. It's subtle. Muted.
Easy to miss when you're already hurting

1. They show up practically, they change your tire, grab your prescription, fix the Wi-Fi. For them, helping = caring.

2. They don't try to control your life they respect your routines, your friends, your alone time.Letting you stay independent is how they stay connected.

3. They choose quiet closeness,sitting next to you on the couch. Resting a hand on your leg.Physical presence feels safer than emotional talks.

4. They remember random things you mention. Your coffee order. That meeting you were nervous about. If it comes up later, you matter.

5. They need space but they don't disappear forever.

6. They step back to regulate, then reach out again.The return is the signal they slowly fold you into their real life.
Errands. Weekend routines. Familiar places. That's intimacy in their language.

Many avoidants grew up with emotional neglect, their basic needs were met, but their feelings were ignored or dismissed. Over time, their nervous system learned that emotions aren't safe, so vulnerability feels risky.
That's why emotional conversations can lead to pulling away or shutting down. It isn't personal. It's how they protect themselves. And over time, that makes real closeness hard to build, even when care is there.

[Feelings ღ @breefeelingmsgs]

i miss talking to you all night.

[lina @digitalheart777]

my misery is self inflicted, i have no one else to blame

[meliazzzd @meliazzzdd]

nada peor que ser ignorado por la persona que uno ama con todo su corazón

[Ari🪷 @arikoyarii]

crashing out and yearning at the same time is how my life been going

[bri 💋 @abrillgirl]

el hombre que fue amado por mí tiene todo el derecho de decir que estoy loca, porque yo enamorada me desquicio por amor