@TheGarden@iamcardib SOLD OUT LIKE CARDI B. MADISON SQUARE GARDEN FILLED TO THE TOP OF THE ROOF. THEY MAD OR NAH! Concert ain’t start yet. This the dj. @iamcardib#Amithedrama
are people forgetting how toxic they were together? breaking up every month, G cheating on him, yolanda asking for a paternity test cause G was seeing another guy at the same time she was seeing zayn. zayn realized he wasn’t in love bc it was an unhealthy and toxic relationship
So when Gigi said Bradley is the first person ever she fell in love it wasn't a problem or she wasn't having a baby with Zayn? Or when she cheated on him it wasn't a problem? As long as Zayn said it wasn't love but he RESPECTS and LOVES HER it's a problem? What a joke
People are getting mad at Zayn for saying he was never in love with Gigi (the mother of his child) and sure, that’s wild.
But they’re missing the real lesson here.
He said: “If I had been in love, I would’ve been a better version of myself.”
That’s the entire point, imo.
When a man truly loves you, he doesn’t stagnate. He will upgrade, regulate, become disciplined, idk do whatever is required to fix what’s broken without you having to beg/ask/try.
In my opinion (and Zayn’s words confirm this) love makes a man aspire. It sharpens him, makes him want to build, protect, provide, evolve because he wants to be worthy of the life you’re building together.
You cannot “fix” a man. You shouldn’t. Guy who loves you will fix himself. It’s what they do.
And if he isn’t becoming better with you, he simply isn’t in love.
Lesson in there ✌🏻