Nolan Wells didn't drown. Emmett didn't whistle. Philando didn't reach for a gun. Trayvon didn't harass. Sonya Massey didn't call the police to die. Ahmaud didn't trespass. Breonna never woke up. Sean Bell didn't make it to the altar. George and Eric couldn't breathe. Rekia didn't pose a threat. Laquan was walking away. Kendrick did not roll himself up. Mike Brown was only jaywalking. Sandra Bland did not commit suicide. Botham Jean couldnt enjoy his ice cream. Tamir Rice didn't have a gun.
i might be like— super overly sensitive, but i do appreciate when people are super straightforward about what they want, mean and think. even if it hurts sometimes, id rather just cry about it, get over it, take accountability and what not, instead of someone dodging me.
i want to say it doesnt matter but it does matter so the next step is how to move on while still caring about it but its so lonely i dont really know what to do
I only want to be in close relationships with people who know how to do repair with the actual desire to save important relationships more than their ego. Those who are willing to not only demand accountability, but also take accountability when they hurt others.