Its real and raw. Wujud dunia sebenar. Dia cam tak nekan2 like its understandable if they choose that decision especially considering their trauma. Even if society would judge those decisions as wrong, theyre still believable and human. Thats what makes the writing so good.
According to psychology, the urge to immediately fix a partner’s or friend’s distress instead of just sitting with them in it isn't empathy; it is your own low frustration tolerance. When someone you love is hurting, and you instantly jump into problem-solving mode, offering unsolicited advice or trying to find a silver lining, you are often trying to soothe your own secondary anxiety. You aren't rescuing them from their pain; you are rescuing yourself from the discomfort of witnessing a vulnerability you don't know how to hold.