so an abuser's "side of the story" is that his victim cheated on him.
okay let's say that is true.
all of you doing "this is why I listen to both sides", are you telling me that if your partner cheated on you, you'd beat them to a pulp?
infidelity excuses abuse now huh?
ryt.
being a self-aware person doesn't mean i view myself as a good person. i think a lot of people get that confused. it literally means that i am vigilant of both my light and dark side. i have also made peace with my flaws even though i'm always working through them