@jilysnation@SundaeKiwi@soapxmuncher no they’re not contradicting themselves they just exist as they are, and you refuse to understand them. seems you have a really binary idea of how people can exist, you should try knowing the gender diverse individuals in your community.
@jilysnation@SundaeKiwi@soapxmuncher no they very much still identify as butches and studs but also as men. thats their lived reality. they dont center their lives around cis men. they still love women. but as a transgender man. the social spot that transitioning puts you in is really complicated you know?
@svageopress youre 26 but your posting history tells me you have the life experience of a sheltered white lesbian 18 year old who doesn’t go to clubs or parties or meetups or bars
@jilysnation@SundaeKiwi@soapxmuncher have you been to a lesbian bar? in my town theres two. there are butches and studs who transition later into their lives who do not want to leave the lesbian community because that’s where their love and connections are. yes i have friends who are trans men who identify as studs.
@burnthelilacs i mean i dont think the people using those labels consider those identities to be at the same level as being a trans person. they’re all kids who haven’t had the chance to pursue medical avenues of transition, are lonely, and have blended their identities with their interests
@adelkazz@butterkomi29 shit i can direct you to one of my irls whos bi and nonbinary who calls himself a gay trans man but he’d probably just tell you to go to the club
@adelkazz@butterkomi29 yeah i actually do i have a lot of trans friends, including trans men who identify as studs. in real life. personally. maybe you should broaden your horizons?
@trad_west_ backlash from who? me and all my faggy friends go to in n out all the time and we don’t care. most people don’t even notice them. ur not under attack! get off the cross girl we could use the wood!
@t3laviv@catboycarlo also before 2022 it was easier to dodge military conscription in Israel on mental health grounds and im 99% sure yoav in the past mentioned adhd and autism as diagnosis