Splitting: when BPD individual goes into black and white thinning. All good or all bad. This can be rapid cycling. One minute you are the favorite person to the worst enemy. BPD individual cannot comprehend that someone can be a good person and do bad things.
Did you know that May is Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) awareness month? Say what you want about #TikTok but I have learned SO much about the mind of person with #BPD. All this time thinking the toxic person in my life was a #Narcissist. Nope! #BPD all the way.
Depression is a symptom of life in survival mode. We treat depression like there’s something wrong with the person. When it’s actually a natural response to an unhealthy environment.
THE COVERT NARCISSIST: "This Covert Creature Is The Slimiest Narcissist Of All. They Constantly Gossip Behind Your Back. Because They're Cowards, They Try & Get Supporters To Gang Up On You & These Supporters Have Been Manipulated By The Narcissist. Covert Narcissists Are Jealous
Narcissists are compulsive liars and are always pointing their fingers around at everyone else and projecting their dishonest and abusive behaviors onto others to try and deflect their obvious guilt.
Narcissist don’t have a problem with their anger, they have a problem with your anger. When you finally start calling them out on their behavior, watch how quickly they flip the script. #reactiveabuse#alwaysthevictim
When toxic people know they've done you wrong, they'll often become fixated with trying to destroy your reputation by spreading lies and slandering information about your private life.
My ex did this to me so many times, I literally lost count. I was under 4 - 90 day investigations in two different states in one year. By the end of our last custody trial I was on a first name basis with social workers who had to continually come to my house. #abusebyproxy
Revenge is actually one of the narcissists games. When they feel slighted, rejected or ignored they'll spread rumors about their targets, destroy their stuff, stalk, harass and get violent. In some cases, they incite others to harm you.
They enjoy others suffering.. Be prepared