Just a woman who found healing in the kitchen, helping people celebrate life through cake & laughter. Soft where it matters. Solid where it counts. 🇩🇴🇹🇹 ♎️
Imagine not having a HS diploma but then trying to insult a whole population of people because you lack the knowledge of their culture… Mississippi gets a lot of hate and for what? They are far from illiterate! They are home to one of the best HBCUs! They are home to one of the most talented producers out there! They have southern accents but they are some of the kindest people you will ever know! Humility, grace, real southern charm! High EQs and very high intelligence! My ex was from there and taught me it’s ok to be me and soo much more! He taught me life skills and things that books don’t teach so yeah… put some respect on MS!! That man changed my entire life so I will stand on this until I don’t have a heartbeat! No Mississippi slander will be tolerated!
To the point where you go to the extreme to prove a point… never again! I was so out of character that I lost myself. When I told my man who knew me for years, he even said that it wasn’t me and that I ignored everything that showed me he wasn’t for me because I wanted it to work so bad. Now I’m back to myself and it feels so good.
Thank you God for showing me I didn’t lose anything. What I prayed for, I’m actually living in real life… not on social media. It just took me a while to see it because I was still holding space for someone I knew wasn’t right for me. Someone I loved, but also knew it wasn’t going to work.
Sometimes we hold on to things because they feel good in the moment and they’re familiar, not because they’re right for us. I almost blocked my own blessings ignoring what God showed me a long time ago because my heart was leading. But God stepped in and severed it permanently so I could grow into who I am today.
And that growth? It will have you looking back and realizing you weren’t losing anything… you were being redirected.
I had my peace, and I almost disrupted it, but I caught it. And that’s what matters. My peace is too valuable to play with now. I’m choosing alignment, I’m choosing what’s real, and I’m protecting what God gave me.
What’s meant for me is already mine… and I’m not looking back.