Iβve reported rape twice to the Met Police, both times NFAβd (No Further Action), both times appealed, gave my phone in for evidence both times, they both refused to give their phones, gave DNA evidence in one, it wasnβt even touched, one Detective Inspector told me:
The thing about Greggs is that it's mediocre but it's consistently mediocre. No matter where you are in the country you're never far away from being able to buy a 6/10 sausage roll, and I think that's beautiful.
Ohhhh my goshhh!!! thank you so much, this literally the sweetest thing anyone has done!!! This has genuinely made me feel a lot better and kinda emotional too, I'm glad you kitty was super happy. And I love your drawing, he looks like the cutest lil fella <3333
@Nobuddy05@mconmc@boxxie79 I'm so sorry that happened you. please don't compare other people traumas to yours, it's not healthy. If I was making jokes about my own sexual trauma I'd somewhat understand this reaction. To me, this is laughable as it was a ridiculous way to tell a child they can't have a pet
I begged for a cat when I was 6 and parents refused. one day my dad sat me down and said I had a cat and I killed it when I was 2, that I pulled it's tail, it jumped out the window and died. my mum didn't deny it. I believed it for years and felt so much guilt and shame about it.
@Excelsi53567780@Arnold3783264 Thank you, I felt absolutely awful about it at the time because I heard that he liked to defend his garden from other cats and the occasional fox. His owners were worried he got hurt in a fight or something worse
@onnoffscale All I can do is just laugh now, like how this was the easiest option it's so stupid. Idk why it took me so long to realise this wasn't true
When their own parents would rather die than accept any kind of fault or error in how they raised them, thinking all the trauma and pain they put them through made them better and stronger people. I forgive them but I also won't forget what I went through, what's done is done.
The cat thing is like one of the least fucked up things my parents did. The word trauma did not exist in our Jamaican household until 2020. They started to realise and learn, if they continued to fuck up with me I'd fully cut them off and they'd never heard from me again.
They thought they'd have a lifetime after learning how that shit affected me, to make up, do better and help heal together as a family and individually. It sucks that I didn't get this version of them for very long, but the fact they even changed meant the world to me anyways.