actually your community IS coming to save you, people are going to show up for you, love is going to find you, strangers are going to be like angels, the world conspires for your highest good
When we refuse to name what is occurring, relationships become governed by unprocessed stuff. Making the invisible visible is an essential part of relational intelligence because true intimacy depends on the willingness to look at things together.
also a lot of friendships last simply because yall are never actually honest with each other, instead you confide in a friend within the group and then yall continue on like you weren’t just talking mess about your friend but thats another topic for another day
as the floater friend i was always the one being confided in so i would know as i seen this in every friend group. don’t even try to gaslight me like this isn’t a common occurrence. having friends doesn’t mean you’re a good person lmao at all
Last time the Knicks made it to the NBA Finals in 1999
1) MTA MetroCards were in use (fare was $1.50)
2) Old Yankee Stadium was still around (so was Shea Stadium)
3) “Believe” by Cher was top 100 hit
4) The Greenpoint Twin Water Towers were still around (Greenpoint, Brooklyn)
If you are light hearted and forgiving with yourself, others will feel the ease & joy of being with you. If you find laughter and delight in yourself, others will be healed in your presence..