I fucking love people who become more themselves with age. Stranger taste. Clearer boundaries. Louder laugh. Less interest in impressing random people. Watching somebody slowly stop auditioning for the world is fucking beautiful.
Gaslighting works like this. They do something cruel. Your nervous system reacts. They blame you for reacting. And when you try to address what they actually did, suddenly that conversation is never available.
i use to think this until i realized at my core, i am not a manipulative, evil, lying, cold hearted bitch. i am soft, emotional, loyal, & compassionate. i think the idea of getting a “get back” is doing nun but feeding your ego, while slowly poisoning your soul.
Whatever you do, pray for the ability to see your own sins, your own hypocrisy, and your own shortcomings. Never get so carried away pointing fingers that you forget you, too, fall short.
this man on tiktok said “youcannot repair a relationship with a man who believes the problem is always your reaction, never his behavior” and that’s real shit.
this man on tiktok said “youcannot repair a relationship with a man who believes the problem is always your reaction, never his behavior” and that’s real shit.