@applechews_ I have always sensed this about some situations I have observed, but I think it's the first time I am seeing a term for it and it makes a lot of sense.
@boltedsage77 Your concerns are valid. Share with her information from experts about why this is important. If she continues, report her account and get it blocked.
@bellamufazi But that's the answer. The men married women that didn't know their language, so they made a hybrid. Some families speak Nsenga , with a spattering of Zulu words.Most just mix Nsenga and Nyanja. Language can only survive if it's used, they held on to what they could.
When you go Kuma rural, you will see how someone can live below $1 a day, in this very Zambia. It's both heartbreaking and an example of efficient use of limited resources.
@applechews_ Sadly. You can tell from the relief when you pay someone that has done a service for you, almost as if they didn't expect you to pay. Makes me feel sad all the time.