my hyper independency stems from the fact I was with someone who i could not depend on even if we were the last two people on the earth and made me feel bad for asking for anything so i just learned to take care of whatever needed to be taken care of on my own
men be so weak emotionally and its really the biggest turn off. when you a see a mf has no emotional intelligence or true understanding of how his experiences affect him… its revolting.
at breakfast w one of my gfs and she so nonchalantly started telling me a story about her ex and says “he hit me with his car and then got everyone at my job to call me rollie pollie” 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I would love to just be able to crawl into bed when I get home later but I just remembered I washed my bedding earlier and told myself “I’ll make my bed when I get home tonight” and I am fully regretting that decision 🙃