If you are sharing a bed, sharing bodily fluids, and planning to build a whole life and raise children with someone, the idea that your phone is a "highly classified, impenetrable vault of extreme privacy" is a massive red flag. If your partner picking up your phone to check the time or change a song causes your heart rate to spike, you are not protecting your "autonomy," you are hiding something. Period.
No me quiero meter con la fisicalidad de nadie pero me da mucha risa q haga tanto contenido sobre masculinidad con esa vocecita y forma de hablar jdjdjdj