also if you drive a kia, stop driving like an dickhead knowing damn well karma can come in the form of a stranger stealing your car the next week…do you know you have 30 mins???
“He has childhood trauma.” So do I.
“He’s under a lot of pressure at work.” So am I.
“He’s just overwhelmed.” Me too.
The only difference is that we excuse men’s behavior, and shame women for not carrying it.