i'm sorry but i refuse to let people make me feel bad for caring about ni-ki through this. this isn't simply a case of fans "making it about their faves". people are placing the blame of this heartbreaking event on him, that is beyond cruel
Please stop telling people not to worry about NK. With the amount of hate, false narratives, and "m*r*e*er" labels being thrown at him, of course people are worried. He's human too.
And now some of you are harassing him while knowing the harm this kind of harassment can cause.
"ni-ki/enhypen needs to educate their fans"
If any sensible person with a brain needs a fcking kpop idol to educate them on basic human decency then I'm afraid you're just mentally ill and need to seek therapy and get raised again properly by your parents not by a fcking stranger
enhypen is such an unproblematic group who have done nothing but showed kindness to the fans and the people around them. it's exhausting to see the boys always having to bear the consequences when they have no direct ties to them. they've gone through enough already
remember, ( to parasocials )
these men are not your boyfriends, not your therapist, not your friend, relative, they mean nothing to you and you mean nothing to them.
this is these mens jobs.
you don’t need to be cyber bullying or saying death threats to a kpop idol nor fan.
You guys posting about how fan service and belift are promoting parasocialism and it's their fault but then when said idol himself comes out to speak up aganist parasocialism and tries to encourage fans to be there for the music, you guys blame him for speaking up, 1 +1 = 3?
❌ he talked about the flowers
✅ he never mentioned them at all
❌ he did the live directly after that concert
✅ the live was 4 days later, after a different concert date. In fact 3 concerts have passed
❌ what he said made her a target
✅ he never mention anyone specific, everything was very generic and countless idols have expressed similar sentiments.
If you have any human decency at all, stop using a tragedy to further your hate agenda that you’ve been carrying for years. He’s been a victim of your cyberbuIIying since 14 years old. Constantly twisting and making up lies about his words and actions and misaligning his character.
Just like that poor girl who you thought your words wouldn’t hurt, behind the name plate of a group, he is just a human with feelings who experiences grief and sadness like anyone else. You never know when you’ll drive someone to the edge, and you’re slashing word daggers at someone who may already be having a hard time.
It’s easy and convenient to blame a fandom or idol, but cyberbuIIying is a much broader issue across society, and it’s evident even right now since many people from other fandoms who don’t even have the facts right are all chiming in to say the worse about someone they don’t even know. It’s hypocrisy at its peak to preach about cyberbuIIying while engaging in cyberbuIIying.
Mental health is a complicated and sensitive topic, and it’s one I wish everyone would take more seriously. Idols, fans, or anyone - Get help and seek help if you find yourself with unhealthy thoughts. Have compassion and empathy for others, but also have compassion for yourself.
Don’t rely on any one person for your happiness. That is too much of a burden to place on anyone. They don’t live in your shoes 24/7. No one can save anyone at every moment. I hope that everyone can learn to love themselves more. If you really love someone, the greatest gift you can give to your loved ones is to treat yourself with love because then they don’t need to worry.
Please, treat your heart with kindness and protect it fiercely. Even if you feel all alone in the moment sometimes, you matter so much to someone. So please hold on. Light will come to find you in the dark, just as you are the light to someone else’s darknesses. You are loved more than you know.
imagina você ser um grupo, um membro sair, todo os seus “fãs” duvidarem da sua capacidade com grupo, cada fala ser distorcida, falarem que vocês vão dar disband a qualquer momento, falarem que vocês perderam a essência do grupo.
caralho enhypen que inferno de fãs são esses.
yj has said how difficult it is to balance his solo music while working on group activities. you’re a pro boycotter cause enha are “overworked” but if hee was in the group doing solo music he would be working more. you don’t care about them you care about having your OT7 back
ENGENE is ENHYPEN’s fandom. the members have every right to flex and hype up their own fans. and as for enhypen? the group belongs to the members. which means they’re the only ones who get to speak on their own craft, their genre, or anything else regarding their group.
ENHYPEN:
We genuinely love touring and making music! Getting on stage and performing for our fans around the world during tour and comeback is our absolute favorite thing to do. We can't wait for everyone to listen to our next album too!
ot7 & boycotters:
WE ARE RUINING YOUR CAREER FOR YOUR OWN GOOD! You are clearly brainwashed, hypnotized and held at gunpoint by your evil company! We have conducted extensive and highly scientific research. Meaning that we rewatched five-second tiktok clips in slow motion and we have concluded that you are on the verge of total biological collapse. Therefore, as your self-appointed overlords and guardians, we are taking away your job, bankrupting your future and suffocating your passion.
WE ARE SAVING YOUR LIVES! DO NOT RESIST OUR LOVING OPPRESSION! We know you better than you know yourselves. We know your mental, physical and spiritual health far better than you ever could! After all, we have spent six years diagnosing your micro-expressions on twitter!! 😤💞🫷🫦