Changing feminism from the “liberation of women and girls from the patriarchy and sex based oppression” to “equality for all” has been one of the worst plays ever for any social movement
Remember Mamdani isn't proof you should move to NYC, he's proof you can demand more from your mayor & they absolutely are capable of what you're asking & more, the castle majority are just lazy or don't have people asking so they don't take initiative. Demand more from your mayor
your boyfriends are not golden retrievers. they’re inconsiderate and too self-absorbed and emotionally unintelligent to be capable of considering you and your feelings.
The whimsy is a decoy. The most intelligent, militant minded, LETHALLY gifted people I know are VERY playful bc they have a side that is EXTREMELY venomous and even THEY are afraid of what happens when the scales tip just a LITTTTTTTLE too much. Tread lightly thinking that bc ppl CHOOSE peace that they aren’t skilled at war. They’re hidden in plain sight… not powerless.