It's really obvious ppl don't see adoption as a real and valid family dynamic that works almost exactly like blood related families
Such behaviour is genuinely harmful and spreads the message that being adopted into a household will never make you belong there
"mom, i'm gay" ok
"mom, I'm lesbian" ok
"mom, I'm trans" ok
"mom, I'm furry" ok
"mom, I'm therian" ok
"mom, I'm non-binary" ok
"mom, I hate selfcest..”
gay man: im gay and this actress is hot
society: okay slay diva
lesbian woman: i’m a lesbian and this actor is hot
society: but are you sure you’re not bi tho because why would you say a man is hot if you’re a lesbian i think you’re lying you’re a biphobic liar boooo