You cannot have a man and be asking for help in a black family. They immediately want to know what the fuck is the man you are fucking on doing to help you.
i stopped calling people ugly once I learned that ugly isn't real, it's about perspective. i might not think u cute, but somebody does. u might think I'm the ugliest bitch u ever seen, but somebody plotting to eat my ass. see? perspective.
If I’m having a tough conversation with you, it’s because I want u in my life & want you to tighten up so I can keep u in it. I’m not attacking you.