Losing interest in things you once loved, isolating yourself, overthinking, feeling empty or simply struggling to get through everyday life while pretending everything is okay.
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Banyak perempuan terlihat bangga karena bisa menghasilkan uang sendiri dan memenuhi kebutuhannya tanpa bergantung pada siapa pun. Dari luar itu terlihat seperti kemandirian dan kekuatan.
Tapi bagi sebagian perempuan, sikap itu juga lahir dari pengalaman dan rasa takut. Takut diremehkan, takut disakiti, takut diselingkuhi, takut ditinggalkan, atau takut suatu hari harus bertahan hidup sendirian tanpa siapa pun yang bisa diandalkan. Karena itu mereka belajar berdiri di kaki sendiri sejak awal.
being in relationship is so silly wdym kalau lagi berantem terus tbtb pacar lu manggil nama malah lebih sakit hati dibanding sama masalah itu sendiri… like kok manggilnya nama sih… what happened to baby sayangku cantiku duniaku… udah ga sayang kah 😭💔
Just APOLOGIZE when you know you MESSED UP.
Stop DEFLECTING, GASLIGHTING, and turning the situation around on HER.
Take RESPONSIBILITY. OWN your MISTAKES.
Just say “I’M SORRY, I WAS WRONG.”
Getting MAD at her for being UPSET is WEIRD.
She has every RIGHT to be HURT when you HURT her.
She has every RIGHT to be ANGRY when you DISRESPECT her.
She has every RIGHT to be DISAPPOINTED when you LET HER DOWN.
ACCOUNTABILITY is ATTRACTIVE. DEFENSIVENESS is TOXIC.
Her loss?
No, your loss.
You lost a girl who would do everything just to see you happy. A girl who gave her time and effort just so you could feel loved and appreciated. You lost a girl who kept trying to fix things even when she was the one hurting, just so you wouldn’t leave. You lost a girl who always put you first, even if it meant leaving her own needs behind. A girl who was proud to tell the world about you. A girl who loved you more than she loved herself.
So no, it was never her loss.
@tanyakanrl buat yg belum tau:
cowo tuh emang gitu, seleranya tidak sama dengan yg SANGGUP DIA NIKAHIN.
kalo dari awal kita tau selera cowonya tu TOBRUT / spek ani2, better gausa nikah deh. pasti ujungnya bakal begitu.
kenapa dia akhirnya nikahin itu cewe? KARENA TU CEWE YG MAU AJAH.
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