men be like i'm smarter because i'm talking fast in a monotone voice with a condescending attitude and if you show any emotion you're hysterical and i win by default
Somewhere in your 20s or 30s youβll get the opportunity to rebuild your life after a negative loop, heal from what broke you, live in your own space, reconnect with your discipline, and learn to love yourself again. Itβs very important that you see that journey through.
youβll get rejected and dumped and fired and youβll fail at things you were sure about, thatβs just the cost of being alive. the question isnβt whether itβll happen but how quickly you can get yourself back to swinging at the next opportunity. every day you spend hostage to what already happened is a day youβre not creating whatβs next. reset fast.
Having a fiction book on the go and reading it throughout the day as you slip in and out of your world is a hugely underrated practice. Does something to the psyche that I cannot quite explain, but days spent doing this are the best of days.
Ten lazy years can disappear the moment you lock in. Six months of discipline can erase a decade of drifting. Momentum is magic. It turns yesterday's failures into tomorrow's fuel.
@zekester116 Iβm being dramatic; definitely in a much better place than I have been mentally. I think Iβm just becoming more aware of things π culture shock
People are letting AI write their wedding vows, love letters, parentsβ obituaries, kidsβ birthday cardsβ¦ Such a powerful loss to self and community when people relinquish the truth of their own words and voices to become epiphenomenal vessels for computers to talk to each other.