Nu metal era was the last time Americans had any sense of common identity/class consciousness so the cia and mi6 invented John Mayer and Coldplay so young men would buy messenger bags and study creative writing instead of getting into fist fights and making co2 bombs in the yard
“Why don’t artists make ‘masterpieces’ like these anymore” *points to renaissance art*
Idk man are yall willing to house and feed us while we paint the ceiling of a chapel for 4 years
and remember that a lot of women aren’t diagnosed with ADHD/Autism until adulthood. it’s not “everyone’s suddenly different” it’s “I finally have the resources to see the way I’m living isn’t normal”
@EuthyphroYaBoi mean you have to do it all yourself. nor do I think that’s what she way implying either. just that others are no obligated to stick around when treated like shit just bc someone has issues
@EuthyphroYaBoi she didn’t sugar coat it, but what she’s saying is right. you’re also right, men are socialized a different way and it’s not fair to men or women, but it’s every adult’s responsibility to become someone people wanna be around. but just because it’s your responsibility doesn’t
@BsIsTiring i think “you problem” is in reference to the fact that it’s not your sexual/romantic partners’ responsibility to fix your issues like the men they’re referencing do. the systemic issues are another (still important) conversation than the one being had initially
@BsIsTiring @EuthyphroYaBoi @carbdiem @chuuuonthis @XKpopman2y3d right. i can’t afford it right now either, just didn’t have enough characters to explain all the problems with the system. it’s the solution, but it’s not practical for most