the neurodivergent obsession with trying to figure out why someone did what they did. replaying it. analyzing it. asking your friends. asking your therapist. asking your friends again. because your brain literally cannot accept that some people are just cruel for no reason.
I really dislike the concept of “we experience people differently” because what have I done for you to be horrible to me but kind to the next person?? 😭
— kc, you went to casa & said your stocks would go up… your stocks not up. you went to casa and said you was done begging aniya for hugs… you wasn’t done begging for hugs. you went to casa & said tierra would be running shit in the villa… tierra not running shit in the villa.
What ppl (men) don't understand about casual dating, FWB, situationships ect is you still "owe" the ppl you are casually dating some level of honesty, considetation and accountability. As you own ANY person you are entering a social human contract with those things.