this man sharing a quote said “ as a lady if you are educated, financially independent, disciplined, and strong, then there is nothing left for a man to offer you except the way he treats you” and i think it’s fact.
an eldest daughter once said being the firstborn means you’re automatically irritated by incompetence. not because you’re harsh, but because you were never given the room to be incompetent yourself. the daughters who know… know.
I heard a therapist say, “Your feelings are always valid, your behavior is not.” She explained by saying feel what you feel BUT you need to be accountable for what you do as a result of those feelings.
Don't ignore me. You can tell me you don't want to talk. You can tell me you need space. Whatever the case may be.
Radio silence is a hard limit for me. It touches a very vulnerable place in me.
one thing... I CAN NOT STAND.... is being ignored. if you're busy, say so. if you are not in the mood to talk, say so. if you are done with me, SAY SO. COMMUNICATE.