People who are obsessed with humbling you actually hate themselves, have low self-esteem, are deeply insecure & miserable. Pay them no mind. Pity the fools.
PLEASE DON'T ever trade your authenticity for approval. NEVER ever associate yourself with people who move cowardly through gossip, manipulation, betrayal, wickedness, avoiding accountability and fake loyalty. Let people dislike you.
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Kalau kita tipe yang gampang baper, suka menyendiri pas lagi stress, terus punya sifat perfectionist, tapi di saat yang sama suka nunda-nunda kerja, artinya kemungkinan besar kita punya ‘inner child’ yang terluka dan trauma dari masa kecil. Biasanya muncul karena perasaan ditinggalin, ditolak, atau merasa gak dihargai. ❤️🩹
normalize saying “unfortunately you’re no longer a safe person for me and I refuse to continually sacrifice my nervous system to make you feel comfortable”
The REALEST people are highly selective. They have no desire to be connected to people who operate from jealousy, negativity, wickedness, entitlement, and a lack of integrity. If you pay attention, they are the most isolated, move quietly, and mind their own business.
The calmest people have mastered the art of letting go. They have nothing to prove and nobody to impress. They don’t need to prove they’re doing better than others. They remain private, vibe high, and stay low-key.
Being disliked by people with ugly spirits is protection. I have no desire to be connected to people who operate from jealousy, wickedness, negativity, entitlement, manipulation or a lack of integrity. Life is spiritual. Not every heart is safe to stay connected to..
You can literally feel in your soul when it’s TIME .. time to move on from people, time to make a change in your life, time to get rid of unhealthy habits, time to want MORE for yourself. At some point you’ll just know..
You will remain depressed for the rest of your existence if you don't learn to take some ownership over your life. Sometimes you do have to take calculated risks, say no and stand up to someone/something that bothers you, make the changes YOU want to see for YOUR life without requiring for external approval to do it. You cannot enjoy your life if you are dormant about your own success or commitment to happiness. Being passive is toxic, don't let anyone trick you into thinking otherwise, be aggressive and committed to pursuing your deepest desires and go at them until they become a reality, it's completely up to you.
Study yourself. Your Patterns. Habits. Compulsions. Trauma. Anxieties. Insecurities. Addictions. Once you see them, the unconscious becomes conscious. And the moment you know what they are and how they control you, you awaken. You become unstoppable.