Beejay

Islam forever

[Anini :) @naza_anita]

Nigerians!

Please do it for the woman that pretended to be mad and hid her daughter in a ditch so she won’t be taken, do it for Pelumi Onifade, the victims of EndSARS massacre, the victims of Owo massacre, our brothers and sisters in the North that we don’t even get to hear of

[🥷 @_iamhabeeb]

people are doing great things man, i refuse to be left out

[23 DERECE @yirmiucderece]

Sokak ortasında kocasının şiddetine maruz kalan bir kadın, Kocasına yumrukla karşılık verdi. İşte o anlar

[ĸolαde @twitgameboy]

I deeply apologize to my parents for ever blaming them or getting angry… damn, it’s not easy 💔😔 Emi mi tife bo! 🥹

[ĸolαde @twitgameboy]

if you have a strong faith of buying your first car this year, retweet. 🔃

[A.Y.O @YusufAsunmogejo]

Hello Lola, I am a Muslim, and our spiritual tradition has a very deep approach to raising children. I want to share some tips from our scholars that will be beneficial to you regardless of your faith.

First of all, our theology teaches the concept of Fitrah. This means that every child is born with a pure heart. At six years old, she is not a criminal mastermind. She does not have a wicked soul.

If she doesn’t have all these, then what is happening? The truth is that she is just lacking impulse control and testing boundaries. By this, if you look at her as a manipulator, you will fight her. However, if you look at her as a pure soul making mistakes, you will be able to guide her.

Secondly, for every problem anyone faces today, it has been solved in history. The only problem is how to locate them.

A classical scholar named Al-Ghazali wrote about child psychology over 900 years ago in his famous book “Ihya Ulum al-Din.” In his section on disciplining children, he gave a practical rule I want you to adopt going forward.

He advised that parents should never push a child into a corner where they are forced to lie. When you ask a question you already know the answer to, her survival instinct kicks in. She cries and she lies to defend herself because she is scared of you. Stop interrogating her. Just look at her and state the fact. Say, I know you took this, and we are going to return it right now.

Again, another scholar and sociologist Ibn Khaldun addressed this exact behavior in his masterpiece titled: “Al-Muqaddimah.” He warned that when a child is raised with harsh punishment, they learn deceit, trickery, and lying to protect themselves. This is why she is covering her tracks and crying to manipulate you. The fear of a harsh reaction is making her a better liar.

Lola, do not attach a label to her. Do not ever call her a thief. If you attack her identity instead of her action, she will internalize it and grow into that dark label. Tell her the action is wrong but protect her dignity.

Make her return the item. Do not fall for the tears. Hold her hand, walk her back to wherever she took it from, and make her hand it back and apologize. The discomfort of returning a stolen item teaches a much better lesson than beating her will ever do.

Finally, I don’t know if you are a Muslim, but never underestimate the power of your own words. In our faith, we believe the prayer of a parent for a child goes straight to God without any barrier. Pray over her. Pray for her heart to be content and for her character to be straight.

Keep doing this consistently and the habit will break.

Allah knows best.

[highFashion @rahman_jago_]

I am proud to be a Muslim.

[AHH REEKY BABY OO 🇳🇬 @ReekadoBanks]

Five minutes to when your life go change , you still no go know .
God , the all supreme , I’m humble.

[Yen yen @yenyenpurehoney]

Congratulations! Before Ramadan ends, Allah will send you unexpected rizq. Repost in faith.

[Harram @_harramm]

what doesn't kill you turns into a 22 minute sujood dua at 4 AM.

[Vampz @Hybrid_Ola]

I don’t think anyone fully recovers from losing a parent

[Chioma @Merchimaaa]

Yea, and a lot of people need to die for that to happen

[Opeyemi Babalola @BOTAD01]

Nigeria is in dire need of a president. A human being.

[‏ِ @karoblaqx]

no give up cuz money go too fit you eje.

[Manchester United @ManUtd]

Festive throwbacks at the Theatre of Dreams 🎄✨

#MUFC

[Manchester United @ManUtd]

That felt good.

[Beejay @moruphah]

@jujupunter 100k

[Cristiano Ronaldo @Cristiano]

Feliz por estar de volta 🇵🇹

[Pop Base @PopBase]

27 years ago today, the world lost Princess Diana.

[THE KINE 🌕🖤 @asher_kine]

there’s no benefit from suffering pls. 🧎🏽‍♂️ 📍 WARRI