I’ve noticed that most SA girlies dating Nigerian guys seem genuinely happy and well taken care of, consistent effort, nice dates, thoughtful gestures, and that ‘queen treatment’ vibe without constant drama. 🥹
Kodwa, a lot of the women I know who are with abo Mr Grace end are going through a dog, complaining about lack of romance, emotional unavailability, bare-minimum gestures, and feeling like they’re always the ones carrying the relationship.
The princess treatment from Lagos is hitting crazyyyy!!
Nigerian men get that spoiling your girl = smart investment.
SA men: Spoiling her = prostitution/ Gold digging.