If anything ever happens to me 🤍
Please don’t hand my child over to his father’s side.
Take him my mom/siblings, they’ll know exactly what to do.
They know my heart🫀.
They know how much I love him❤️.
They know how I want him raised.
That’s not drama. That’s a mother’s peace of mind. 🕊️✨
My baby deserves to be where he feels safe, loved, and understood. Always.
Don’t give up.
I know it sounds cliché, but it’s one of those truths that only makes sense when you’ve lived through a rough season.
Time is a blessing in the sense that if you keep moving forward, something positive is bound to happen.
The beautiful thing about life is that people, opportunities and moments are always in motion, like atoms bumping into each other and creating new reactions.
Even when you stay stuck, nothing else is.
Something is bound to happen. If you can hold onto that, you can survive anything.
It’s a simple formula of physics + hope
As a babymother I wouldn’t choose this life again. I long for a family. Not being a single mother. You’ll meet these broken men who seek validation from multiple women. They’ll sell you a dream of being a “family” but in reality they don’t want to settle down yet they just don’t want to lose you. Your pregnancy should be such a beautiful & peaceful experience. Not traumatic. I say this to say pls pls pls be careful with who you choose to have kids with. I learned my lesson the hard way & if I could give any advice it would be this! I didn’t know how I strong I was til I became a mother. But it’s one of the hardest titles I’ve ever had to carry.
Poor money management will keep you stuck in the same situation you’ve been trying to escape for years. At some point you’ve got to draw the line and handle your business like an adult. You can’t elevate if you keep repeating the same habits.