I have failed
- Socially
- Romantically
- Academically
- Financially
- Spiritually
- Physically
But for some reason I still haven’t killed myself. Let’s make 2026 a good one you guys.
I used to refresh his Instagram 20 times a day. TWENTY TIMES. I'd see him post stories and my chest would physically tighten because he could post but couldn't text me back. Now? He calls me every morning before work. Can't start his day without hearing my voice. The irony is insane.
Truly living in holiness before the Lord requires more than most are willing to give to God. When the scripture says to offer yourself as a living sacrifice unto God, what do people think that means because many are comfortable with a Christianity that has no costs yet wonder why their faith seems dead or continually diminishes. The demands of the Lord that they continually avoid are the very means through which God reveals His glory.
A smart woman will make other men jealous and increase her man status.
A dumb woman will make her own man jealous and increase his level of stress.
Rememberrrrrrrrrrrr this.
Nobody is more biased against a man than the woman he's in a relationship with.
Especially if she is the one who predominately provokes him, undermines him, exploits his weaknesses, gaslights him, refuses accountability for her own role in relationship problems, blames him for everything that's wrong, etc.
Sometimes, the person you should be closest to actually knows the real you the least, because they only see you through the lens of your own particularly misaligned traumas and attachment wounds. They only see what their survival instincts let them see. They are not optimizing for truth, they're optimizing for self-protection. Especially if they've been doing that since they were small because they had to in order to survive.
Maturing is realizing that none of us are easy to be with. Relationships are about who's willing to stay committed to understanding you and actually wants to grow with you.
If you're in a relationship, please protect your partner's peace. Stay away from friends who tolerate bad behavior, who instigate, or who try to convince you to do the wrong things. They won't help you grow, they'll only pull you down and slowly break your relationship. You don't need to follow their mindset or be like them just to fit in. Choose maturity, choose boundaries, and choose the person you committed to.
Asking people if they are OK when they don’t show up - instead of assuming everyone is dismissive or a disappointment. They could just be overwhelmed by life…
The problem with being a deep, witty and interesting person, someone who knows a lot and can connect with almost anyone (if they want to), is that people often see you as a performance, a resource, not a person. They overlook the time and energy you put in, while expecting more in return. You seek genuine exchange; they seek entertainment. Only those who understand the strength, experience and solitude it takes to be that way will truly value what you share- and will do their best to reciprocate
The girl who loves you can do anything to be with you.
She can leave her parents, her job, and even change her religion for you.
No boundaries can keep a girl who is truly in love away.
If you really think she is not with you for any reason,
just accept it:
you’re not the man she thought was worth sacrificing for.