Moyosoreoluwa🧕🧕

Human first/computer scientist/ May born/ mum/ tailor/ loves smiling/ Just vibes and insha Allah 😊 / Fashion designer

[EgoKuwait 🇰🇼 @Egokuwait]

Some of you paid for that luxury hair bit by bit, paid for your gadgets bit by bit.

But doing Ajo to own these things is seen as fake life. This double standard is very funny.

People are doing Ajo to pay house rent.

Before Cowrywise and PiggyVest or any bank saving system, Ajo existed.

Some of our parents did Ajo to pay our school fees.

You people just have a problem with everything, ATP.

[Moyosoreoluwa🧕🧕 @moyoxide1]

@ronkecarew I can’t send DM Ma because i am not premium user

[Moyosoreoluwa🧕🧕 @moyoxide1]

@lollypeezle 😂😂😂

[Ibironke Khadeejah Quadri @ronkecarew]

Update-

Thank you to everyone that has reached out about my post yesterday, may Allah never forsake you all. We are grateful

She has reported to the Akwa ibom welfare board, They will invite the Man.
The child is actually A year old and she's 5 months pregnant.

There's evidence of physical abuse too.

She has a BSc and Masters in accounting and has about 6 years experience if anyone is willing to help in that regard, She's willing to work and says She's strong enough .

Her parents are in Port Harcourt and have tentatively agreed to return to them till she's able to return back to Ibadan where She used to be based and established before she went to join Husband in Akwa Ibom 6 months ago.

I will kindly appreciate if anyone based in Port Harcourt can kindly do a welfare check for me, Sincerely I will appreciate it and if anyone has a plug for job, please help.

With Her Permission I will post Her account details once I have the go ahead . I am happy to share contact information in the DM .

My Ladies, learn from other people's experience and plan accordingly, Not in fear , Don't be fearful but be strategic, Love but with your eyes wide open. Never relinquish your economic and financial leverage, Never do it.

May the Lord help us all .

X is a fantastic medium, use it appropriately, Thank you to all of you in my DM with solid suggestions. May the Lord never forsake you all

[👑S.A.L.A.K.O🕊 @UnkleAyo]

If you tell us to "wrap it up", God will take you b4 this month ends.

Olodos have inexhaustible monopoly over our social space - you don't tell them to wrap it up.

Oh & btw, Mr Eazi go think say we don forget am. Banter delayed is not banter denied.

[👑S.A.L.A.K.O🕊 @UnkleAyo]

Make I go compose #olodocore lawyers edition. 😮‍💨

Ycee no know ingredients wey e don drop for boys.

[👑S.A.L.A.K.O🕊 @UnkleAyo]

Here's why I don't respond to some of the tags from nonentities you ppl egg me to respond to.

When you read from me,hear me speak - in what universe would we be stratified in the same basket?

I would be seriously worried if I'm ever on the same conversational divide with them.

[👑S.A.L.A.K.O🕊 @UnkleAyo]

Please decentre social media. Please.

Growth is painful. Growth takes time.

Social media has a way of presenting entire decades of a man's baking period as a readymade buffet.

If you measure against others, it is only a matter of time before you run mad.

Calm down, Chief.

[Adetutu Balogun, MBA @Tutsy22]

In case you wish to know the event that led to the popular Yoruba say, “Adagba je Raufu, o san ju Ogundeyi ba n mugba wa "

There was a man called Ogundeyi, he was like a bar man in one of Yoruba King's palace, His duty was to serve King's guest every day.

One day Ogundeyi converted to Islam. The scholar gave him a new name RAUFU.
Raufu decided to travel with the scholar for a few months.

On his return to the town, Ogundeyi (now Raufu) shunned his job of service man at the palace, claiming Islam abhors drinking of intoxicants.

He became subject of discussion, taunting, abuse, name calling and jesting.
One of it is... Adagba je Raufu. That is at old age, you suddenly realized the need for Raufu instead of Ogundeyi…😂😂😂🤣🤣

[Ibironke Khadeejah Quadri @ronkecarew]

It's one thing to develop and work hard at improving yourself, it's another to end up with a destructive partner, may Allah protect us from evil of Men
As you develop please pray as hard . A prayer I send to my children every weekend as below, though they are not ready for marriage but it's not too early to pray and intentionally too.

Ya Allah , protect me from toxic relationship and grant me wisdom in my choices
Ya Allah, grant me someone who aligns with my values, respect my growth and support my purpose
Bless me with a righteous spouse who will be a source of peace and partnership🤲🤲🤲

[Ibironke Khadeejah Quadri @ronkecarew]

Sallam Sis. I have been searching for your handle fa, we need a space in your niche please I beg. I want my Sisters to know about Halal money making strategies and investments. Please let's talk.

Oya Sisters , Let's get serious..Let the actions start. It's time to make Halal money 🤑🤑🤑🤑
Book your consultation Asap

[Chelsea Godmother 💰 🇺🇸 🇳🇬 @larmmy]

My husband asked me to give a quick second look to a proposal he wanted to submit. I doubled the amount he asked for. I said "Let's give room for negotiation. Don't low-ball yourself". Long story short, they didn't negotiate. It got approved. Man has been looking at me like I'm a fairy. 🤣🤣

[Ibironke Khadeejah Quadri @ronkecarew]

If you like don't earn, if you like Be waiting on a Man. See this Generation nobody owes you nothing
You are human with brain and capacity, God gave them to you for a reason, Use it to improve your life and choices .

Even I will not allow my Son Marry an Alabodo. And no Man born of a woman will be able to say below about any of my daughters. Even as Teenagers and undergraduates they are already earning better than most of you

We are in a generation with limitless opportunities, Use it to your advantage.

Read, Learn, Work hard like a Lunatic, and Earn like a Broke person who needs liberation. We all need it.

Go read the Book Compound Effects by Darren Hardy, You will know that you aren't the only one born poor or with less . But with Hardwork, prayers and consistent efforts. You can change your story and avoid this kind of response.

He is saying the truth to you by the way. If you are in pain then jokes on you.
Use this as a wake up call. And yes I am talking to you Ladies. You can be Successful,Go become a success by God's grace.

If my Wahala is too much for you on this Financial liberation, Block me..
I won't stop anytime soon. As a woman you must make money by fire by force. God will support you and I🤲🤲🤲🤲

[Ibironke Khadeejah Quadri @ronkecarew]

Mine is an Aston Martin. I need one Aston Martin before I die ya Allah. It's the next level for me. The day I drove a Ferrari, I knew I needed to Hustle at a different level . Money is good

[EgoKuwait 🇰🇼 @Egokuwait]

It’s okay to live in a house with a normal ceiling.

It’s okay to repeat clothes.

It’s okay to drink pure water.

It’s okay to attend a government school.

It’s okay not to have a washing machine.

It’s okay not to own the latest gadgets.

It’s okay not to own the latest luxury items.

It’s okay to be you.

Let’s decenter the pressure we’ve placed on ourselves to be aesthetically pleasing.

It will get better for sure, but for now, do not be ashamed of where you are. It’s a process.

[Kunle Kenny -The Joy Dispenser @kunle_kenny]

Nobody is putting any birth control thing inside my wife’s body. No extraneous chemicals or pills. We will only have kids when we BOTH unanimously agree, as God allows in His mercy. And when we’re done, I’m getting a vasectomy. A woman’s body is too sensitive for these chemicals. The side effects are crazy!

[Ibironke Khadeejah Quadri @ronkecarew]

Even at this stage of life, I still work harder than expected because I fully support my 3 children and lots of other people.
I am very grateful for my life, choices, opportunities, divorce, trauma, challenges and every single journey that I have been and still am
I am a very favoured and blessed person and I am hugely successful according to my own standards and templates even if I say so myself. I am a very grateful human being. Allah has been and remains generous with and to me. My Lord is Indeed very sufficient in all ways

To every Sister in Marital distress , I pray God supports you and sorts you out, it's a phase. Keep working Hard , Ask God for improved sustenance and Help. He will help you .

Sisters keep pushing for capacity building, Keep betting on yourselves, Never relent on your ability to grow, evolve , earn beautifully and thrive, Never stop Asking God for sufficiency , Being a woman does not mean you cannot be rich and Islam has not condemn you to poverty or lack , Never Muslims are not poor people.
Most of the restrictions they are projecting on you is cultural, that's not Islam, I am glad many notable Sane Brothers have confirmed that to you . May Allah bless your efforts.

As for irresponsible Muslim Men, You can insult me from Now till the end of time, I will only block your silly Arse off , you won't get a response from me BUT I will only beg for one thing, Please help Us reduce the Numbers of Sisters you are making miserable, stop making them single mothers in Penury, I don't want Sisters to beg for survival and food especially for their children , it's dehumanising! Be Responsible for your Children even after separation or Divorce
Yes Do us all the favour.
I pray Allah punish you all maximally for your unkindness and wickedness.

Divorce does not equate abandonment of children's responsibility. Do the needful and grow up

He who Allah has blessed no one can destroy. My Sustenance and blessing is from my Lord and He remains Limitless and sufficient in all. Alhamdulillah

[𝑰𝒅𝒓𝒊𝒔 𝑨. 𝑶𝒏𝒊 PhD @IdrisAOni1]

Dear Muslim Lady,

Be industrious.

Work diligently.

Acquire beneficial knowledge.

Earn good money through lawful means.

Own properties.

Build businesses.

Invest in your health.

Invest in valuable assets.

Be financially grounded.

Develop useful skills.

Read widely and continuously.

Save consistently.

Plan for the future.

Avoid unnecessary debts.

Support your parents.

Take care of your children.

Be a blessing to your husband if you are married.

Be independent, but never arrogant.

Be ambitious, but remain humble.

Be confident, but preserve your modesty.

Build your intellect as much as you build your appearance.

Protect your dignity.

Protect your reputation.

Choose your friends wisely.

Use social media responsibly.

Do not measure your worth by likes, comments, or validation from strangers.

Have goals bigger than fashion and trends.

Contribute positively to your community.

Give charity regularly.

Help other women rise.

Stand for truth and justice.

Fear Allah in public and in private.

Pray consistently.

Recite the Qur'an regularly.

Maintain good character.

Guard your tongue.

Guard your chastity.

Guard your heart.

Remember that beauty fades, trends change, and wealth can disappear, but faith, character, knowledge, and good deeds remain.

Strive to become a woman who is respected not merely for her appearance, but for her faith, intelligence, wisdom, compassion, integrity, and contribution to humanity.

May Allah make you among the righteous women of this world and the successful women of the Hereafter.
Āmīn.

[Muminat Taofeek @muminattaofeek]

There is a particular kind of manipulation that thrives in Nigerian Muslim communities and it has been so normalized that most women do not even recognize it when it is happening to them.

It sounds like this: "A woman who chases money will forget her home." "Financial independence will make her arrogant." "She doesn't need to work, that is the man's responsibility."

And because it is delivered wrapped in religion, most women swallow it whole.

But here is what nobody tells you that is not Islam. That is insecurity dressed in a jalabiya.

The Quran gave women property rights over 1400 years ago when Europe had not even conceptualized the idea. Khadijah (RA) was one of the wealthiest merchants in Mecca.

She employed the Prophet ﷺ before he became a Prophet. Her financial power never made her less of a wife, less of a Muslimah, or less of a woman. It made her one of the greatest human beings to ever walk this earth.

So when did we decide that a woman knowing her money is a threat?

I will tell you when. The moment men realized that a woman with options is a woman they cannot manipulate. Financial dependency is not modesty. It is a control mechanism. And we have been conditioned to protect it by calling it deen.
I have always believed that money is not a man's conversation it is a human necessity.

And as a Muslim woman specifically, understanding wealth is not rebellion. It is your right. It is your protection. It is quite literally built into your religion.
Nobody should have to be
Beg for maintenance, stay in a toxic marriage because they cannot afford to leave, or shrink their ambitions because a man's ego is more comfortable with their ignorance.

Women like @ronkecarew exist in this space and remind me that this is not a radical opinion. It is simply what happens when you actually read when you go back to the source instead of inheriting somebody's cultural anxiety and calling it faith.

Know your deen. Own your money. They were never in conflict to begin with. 🤍

[Ifekam @bethabetter]

Stop telling little girls:

_The wedding day is her biggest day
_She needs a man to submit to in marriage to be complete.
_A man is her crown.
_Your husband owes your body.
_You must be a wife

I need women to be free and we must start from the foundation.