One of my favorite things about myself is that I can take a hint. You don’t have to say much. I’ll notice whatever you’re implying and move accordingly. Save us both the embarrassment.
Communication is not arguing. Somebody telling you what they need is not arguing. Somebody telling you to do more so they feel loved by you is not arguing. Somebody telling you how you hurt them is not arguing. Hearing what you don't want to hear is not arguing! Speaking on what bothers them is not arguing... You learn to communicate when you actually and truly care✍🏾
Unfortunately, I do want a provider. I do want a protector. I do want a leader. I do want a dominant man. I do want emotional maturity and effective communication. I do want mental stability. I do want to be spoiled. I do want self awareness. I do want clingy, obsessed and safe. I do want someone who chooses me every time. And nobody is going to make me feel bad for wanting those things in a partner.
Accountability means a lot to me. Nobody is perfect, we all make mistakes, but don’t try to shift the blame and make my reaction the problem when your actions are what caused the hurt in the first place. Take responsibility for what you did before questioning how I responded.
Women get prettier when our nervous system is regulated & we're not living in chronic stress. Longer hair, shinier hair, softer + glowier skin, no bloating, no breakouts, no mood swings. We’re our best version when we rest more, slow down, spend more time in the sun, eat warm foods, dance, frolic... Biologically we're wired to be whimsical
A lot of non-sexual emotions arise when I look at this art piece.
There is so much love, hunger, reverence, and passion in the way he embraces her. It feels like surrender which is held with protection. She is allowing him to take over her body because there is immense trust there, which a woman feels when she is safely absorbed into the person she loves.
That is what makes it so beautiful. The act of becoming one is about recognition, safety, devotion, and the quiet permission to dissolve into another person for a moment.
At this big age when people show signs of hidden animosity or weird energy, I just remove myself. I’m not trying to understand you and I’m not trying to make it make sense