@SpirituaISister@Scypted173560@Whisgoon "my therapist told me its actually uber chill to rp as dess 'groomed you on amino' holliday on twitter aschshully" awwww man im sure! and the ground is rubber and clouds are made of cotton candy! mannnnn this is a totally logical and healthy thoroughfare to live my life by!
@SpirituaISister@Scypted173560@Whisgoon your perspective is so mired in self hatred and twisted by your own justification for your behaviors that its impossible to take what you say at face value with any degree of sincerity
@SpirituaISister@Scypted173560@Whisgoon on a personal level this behavior rings as self harm, constantly retraumatizing yourself in an attempt to garner any sort of validation from abusive individuals who ultimately are using your status as cover for their own benefit
@SpirituaISister@Scypted173560@Whisgoon as a victim of incestuous abuse myself, being victimized isnt justification for horrific behavior. if anything we need to advocate and support our fellows more than anybody else, rather than act as the convenient excuse for people exhibiting the same abusive behaviors we survived
@Scypted173560@Whisgoon this content does not exist in a convenient vacuum where suddenly everything is devoid of cultural context and has no significance on the way we live our lives, it is deeply telling of how society thinks of, treats, and views victims of sexual assault
@Scypted173560@Whisgoon you are deliberately misinterpreting my argument, and pretending that the porn we consume has had no impact on the way we talk about sexual assault is really funny when half the population loves to make stepbrother/stepsister jokes without thinking any deeper on it
@Scypted173560@Whisgoon i do not deny there are people who have been victimized who proliferate this type of content, that doesnt negate judgement of their behavior and the ways this perpetuates the cycle of abuse.
@Scypted173560@Whisgoon the consumption of this material is not victimless, it actively aids in disenfranchising, delegitimizing, and shaming victims of sexual violence by making that violence yet another product to be consumed and discarded. it is an act of supreme dehumanization.
@Scypted173560@Whisgoon victims are constantly silenced and shamed and vilified for daring to speak on abuse because society as a whole has become utterly numb to it, incest exists as a joke to everyone but those who have been impacted by it, primarily because of content like this being so normalized
@Scypted173560@Whisgoon you dont actually care to engage in actual conversation, you dont actually give a shit about activism or championing any cause in particular, you want to shut down the conversation because it makes you uncomfortable when people openly question the morals of someone you idolize
@Scypted173560@Whisgoon its always "theres better things to do" and never an actual defense for reprehensible behavior. "nothing to harm people" as if victims of these real crimes arent constantly making their displeasure and the realities of how this content perpetuates rape culture vocally known
like i severely doubt this is an honest plea for mutual respect for both sides of this particular topic, its just another way to chastise victims for being vocal about topics that make you personally uncomfortable to pontificate on
its so so so interesting how the people who get mild pushback for the reprehensible shit they post online are deserving of a nigh infinite amount of grace and patience and unending understanding, but never the victims who dared to speak up on a topic that impacts them the most