I can never recommend the way I got married to someone else
I never saw this man face to face until he was coming to pay my bride price.
We knew each other for 6 months only talked seriously like 2 months out of that time.
And this man used speed to fly down to ask my parents for my hand
I can’t recommend it for anyone. Not even my siblings. Because humanly speaking that Time frame is too short.
Because what are the odds that the man you stumbled on on instagram Is the man you’ve prayed for all your life?
But it worked for us. We both knew and believed so much in our hearts that this was God bringing us together. And we’ve never had cause to regret.
This post is not about marriage per se but I need you to stay with me
I looked at the Bible closely and I saw that if Moses has used David’s stone it wouldn’t have worked
And there was no way Moses’s rod would have helped David kill Goliath
Infact do you remember Brother Samson? He only used the jaw bone of an ass once and threw it away.
If it were you and I today, after the kind of victory that the jawbone gave him, we would have put it inside our bag and protected it with our lives because you’ll think that’s where the victory lies.
But it wasn’t about the stone or the rod or the jawbone.
It was about God present with them
It was about God giving them victory.
And as long as God was there, that victory would continue
I’m sharing all these because as believers we are quick to look at others to copy what they are doing
When someone is experiencing victory we want to copy their prayer point word for word.
If a sister tells you that she found her husband when she was singing in the choir, the next Sunday you want to register in the choir unit when God specifically told you that you should be in the prayer band.
Because we don’t see the God behind the strategy. We think the victory is in the strategy.
If it’s not God that commanded you to use that rod, it will just be an ordinary stick.
Please read with understanding.
Selah.