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Married LGBTQ people: CALL A LAWYER.
Get copies of birth certificates and custody for your children on paper. Make sure life insurance policies, property that you own, bank account information, passwords for things, Powers of Attorney, etc. are all set up & understood
please blow this up, y’all, by either RT or QT. if i get enough responses, i’d be glad to make a spreadsheet with contact info to share. lists are my jam!!!
no, because i would be in the spot every three weeks.
where are these places in chicago, new york city, atlanta, and texas (dallas, houston, and austin), y’all‽ please let me know!
no, because i would be in the spot every three weeks.
where are these places in chicago, new york city, atlanta, and texas (dallas, houston, and austin), y’all‽ please let me know!
I’m hosting a free training tomorrow (Wed, 11/17 @ 7p ET) for ambitious Black women. I know it's hard and I know what we face, but if you're ready to find the role for you in 2021 or 2022, join me! https://t.co/Tj0hI1szb5 Please RT (share) & QT (RSVP)! And hit the poll! (10/10)
Black women, here's a message from me to you:
That company's inability to see just how much value, impact, and power you bring to the table isn't a you problem. Something is wrong with them, not you. (9/10)
#5: Psychological impact of all the stats.
While it's important for us to know what we're up against, constantly being fed the disparities in pay, employment, and leadership for Black women can take a mental toll on us. (8/10)
#4: Less likely to be considered for senior-level roles. Black women are consistently underleveled in the job search process, even though we're more than qualified. As the roles get more senior, we suddenly become more "risky." (7/10)
#3: Having to fight to receive actionable feedback.
Though feedback is critical when job searching, Black women are least likely to receive it. Often it's b/c companies have nothing to share other than vague nonsense about not being a good "fit", nothing about skills. (6/10)
#2: Preparing for tone policing.
Black women often don't have the luxury of showing up as our authentic selves in interviews. We must think about how words, facial expressions, and vocal pitch are perceived. Interviews force us to keep our code switching skills on point. (5/10)
#1: Making sure our resume, cover letter, and LinkedIn profile doesn't make us seem "too" Black.
Bias is real. And whether it's unconscious or not, many of us have to consider how bias towards Black women will impact our ability to even make it to the phone screen. (4/10)
I've coached Black women on job search strategy for the past five (5) years, as well as navigated my own searches. Here is a list of the top five (5) things Black women have to deal with while job searching: (3/10)