mrsomething

Coaching men to break free from toxic social validation

Asian guy who fits all stereotypes turning it around with power of discipline and focus on value

[mrsomething @mrsomethinglor]

For the people asking what I look like 162cm, 52kg and I fit almost every bad stereotype of the asian male. I’ve been there and know the challenges

I’m coaching men to step out of resentment and the need for low quality social validation into focusing on value in their lives

[mrsomething @mrsomethinglor]

@ArloAmaru It also doesn’t help that the women welcome them instead of seeing the leeches for what they are

[mrsomething @mrsomethinglor]

Another example of a Singaporean man put through a literal shit eating humiliation ritual by some China girl for her entertainment? SG men really have to stand up for ourselves better by first having some self respect

[丽婷Amber @litingamber]

24小时转发游戏
100/100/100 SGD

曝光第一次吃黄金就敢保证一定吃完的口嗨小🐔新加坡狗，狠狠的评论点赞转发让他家人都能看到

24h Punishment RT game
Destroy this overconfident first time toilet who promised to eat all of my “divine” shit but didn’t

[mrsomething @mrsomethinglor]

@litingamber Pains me to watch a Singaporean brother treated like that. Maybe you should stop it’s obvious he’s already pushed beyond his acceptable financial boundaries. Chinese women have been in the news for being heartless. Do better Amber

[mrsomething @mrsomethinglor]

Exactly why I tell men who chase after women out of their league not to focus on appearances because it will trap them in a wild goose chase for validation which never ends well for the men

[Aruvin 💊 @aruvinchan]

Dating a hot girl will NOT get you validation or social proof.

If you're not in her league, it will simply invite others to speculate that you're bribing her with money, she's with you for immigration purposes, you're blackmailing her, etc.

Anything except that you got her fair and square through your charisma and coolness.

You want social proof?

Look handsome, look well put-together, carry yourself well, interact well with others.

That alone -- even if you're single -- will get you ALL the validation and social proof you'll ever need.

People might even cook up theories IN YOUR FAVOR, as to which girls you're banging on the down low and how many girls you have in your rotation.

Even if you're single.

If someone I know who's a moron gets into Harvard, I don't suddenly think he's a genius.

I suddenly think that Harvard must be a shitty school.

People don't care about externalities and what or even who you choose to adorn yourself with.

People care about their judgment of you as a person.

You simply can't cheat this.

[mrsomething @mrsomethinglor]

Another one, literally killed by a China woman after she financially drained him. Don’t be deceived by the pretty face. See the true cruelty mainland chinese women are capable of

[AntonKreil @AntonKreil]

Only 12 years for murder in Singapore ? 😅

Singapore must either be going soft or they realized that the victim being a FOREX Day Trader is a mitigating factor 🤣

[mrsomething @mrsomethinglor]

Women in Singapore basically have life on easy mode, while the men are on expert difficulty and even if you get some of the steps right you might still find yourself at the mercy of the woman’s charter if an sg woman decides she wants to ruin your life

[wassieloyer @wassielawyer]

Singapore is probably the only country where feminists dare not argue for 'equality' because the female-male power imbalance is already so heavily female-weighted.

If they advocate for 'equality', they simply have no response to 'ok go do NS?'

So they resort to lobbying edge cases to further widen the male-female power imbalance, which has been successful because there is no Singapore male lobby.

Currently off the top of my head, women in Singapore benefit from (a) hilariously favorable divorce laws, (b) lighter sentences for criminal offenses, (c) incredibly favorable maternity privileges, (d) no conscription, (e) positive workplace discrimination in high value professions (via equality of outcome), (f) presumption of truth for rape / sexual assault allegations with low to zero blowback for false allegations.

Its particularly amusing when some of these privileged women then go to the West for higher education and try to bring the feminism narrative home.

No wonder the average Singaporean man is generally cucked.

[mrsomething @mrsomethinglor]

@naritanjun @wassielawyer Everybody that says this knows it will never happen. People need to accept that equality does not work, it is ok that men defend the country they’re just looking for equity in other areas to even things up

[mrsomething @mrsomethinglor]

@retardmode Sadly this is the corruption of the modern female

[mrsomething @mrsomethinglor]

Women should make my dick hard not my life hard

[𝐌𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐨𝐫 𝐌𝐚𝐬𝐜𝐮𝐥𝐮𝐬 @mentormqsculus]

A woman is supposed to make life easier for you.

If she doesn’t, discard her.

[mrsomething @mrsomethinglor]

@mentormqsculus Women should make my dick hard not my life

[mrsomething @mrsomethinglor]

Always choose to build your empire

[the women's formula @womensformula]

Boys chase women. Men build empires and let women chase them.

[mrsomething @mrsomethinglor]

I do a little but I try to give everyone the benefit of doubt when interacting, if they prove to be mean then I’ll cut them out of my life accordingly

[🤠 @heavensbvnny]

Does anyone else instantly pick up on bad vibes from people, even when they're acting nice? If that's a real gift, what's it called?

[mrsomething @mrsomethinglor]

When you stop seeking validation you start turning around in life

[Shubhvani @shubhvanii]

Behind every successful man, there are so many women he chose to ignore.

[mrsomething @mrsomethinglor]

If you're spending hours thinking about women who don't know you exist, you're giving away the one asset you'll never get back: Your attention

Spend that attention on building value in your life and watch it grow

[mrsomething @mrsomethinglor]

@intjgamergirl *Looks down at what I’m wearing now*, takes the L

[mrsomething @mrsomethinglor]

@DRTnky The weather is a factor, more options are available and attention is paid to fashion when you have four seasons. That said we do try from time to time

[mrsomething @mrsomethinglor]

One of the hardest things for a lot of Asian men isn't rejection. It's growing up rarely seeing men who look like you portrayed as desirable, charismatic, or romantic.

That can quietly shape how you see yourself long before you ever ask someone out. I help men overcome that

[mrsomething @mrsomethinglor]

@Llekana14 Depends on your definition of value. If its female-led social validation then sure

[mrsomething @mrsomethinglor]

The moment I stopped asking, "How do I make her like me?" and started asking,
"Would this woman even deserve the life I'm building?"

My direction changed completely and the self respect is addictive

[mrsomething @mrsomethinglor]

@fitpetiteasian TIL I’m a real man