This isn’t about being a perfect parent or splitting childcare 50/50 anymore. If she’s repeatedly saying she can’t even look at the baby, she needs real support, not just a couple of days off. And you matter too—you can’t keep carrying everyone while pretending you’re fine. Please get help before both of you completely burn out.
@faaosuruyo Not necessarily. People often leave those industries and move into management, recruiting, beauty, hospitality, sales, or completely different careers. The bigger issue is whether they have a plan for what comes next—not simply how old they are.
That’s the important distinction: you can criticize how a welfare program is designed or managed without believing poor people should simply be left on their own. Bolsa Família is specifically aimed at low-income families and includes health and education conditions. The real debate should be about helping people escape poverty, not whether they deserve help in the first place.