The reason that people can be so cruel on social media is because it's a place for addicts. It's a place people go to run away from uncomfortable feelings they carry in their bodies.
We pull up social media to distract ourselves from ourselves. When we run away from our feelings, we tend to project them more onto others. Therefore, social media can become an endless toxic feedback loop in which many people are looking for someone to offload the emotions they are avoiding feeling onto.
This is why one of the most radical things you can do in this dopamine-addicted and distracted world is to run directly towards the feelings that scare you the most, rather than spending your life distracting yourself from them.
Once you do, you will learn how quickly those feelings dissipate, and that the feelings you spent months, maybe even years, scrolling to distract yourself from were actually not so scary after all.
Ask a problem-focused question, and your brain finds problems. Ask a solution-focused question, and suddenly your brain scans for moves, opportunities, and decisions you couldn't see before.
Today, find one place where fear whispers “stay safe” and answer with the ancient roar of courage: “I was born for this.”
Plant your feet. Lift your shield. Charge.
The epic is waiting.
How to be unrecognizable in 90 days:
1. Be obsessed
Every outsized outcome I’ve seen came from people who genuinely enjoy the pressure. Not motivated people. Obsessed people. It’s almost impossible to compete with someone who treats the thing you dread as fun.
2. Clean out your closet
Get rid of anything that doesn’t fit the person you’re becoming. Cluttered space creates cluttered thinking, and cluttered thinkers don’t make money. Changing how you show up physically is one of the fastest ways to change how you behave.
3. Clarify your ONE thing
Not five ideas. One. Put a number on it and give yourself 90 days to get there. You have to prove to yourself that you keep your word.
4. Tell a better story about yourself
Not a vision board. Write down the words. If your life were a book, what’s supposed to happen next? What goes wrong and how do you react to it? When challenges show up, it’s much easier to keep going if you already decided they were part of the plot.
5. Start a not-to-do list
Becoming elite means cutting distractions aggressively and doing fewer things better.
6. Eliminate distractions
Most distraction is optional so make it harder to waste time and easier to focus. Small changes here create outsized results.
7. Outwork people
If you wake up earlier, protect the first part of your day, and eliminate distractions, you will get ahead faster than you think. Because most people just aren’t willing to work hard.
8. Move in silence
When you’re actually changing your life, you don’t need an audience. Do cool shit. Then talk after the result.
Do this for 90 days and your life will look different.
Because you will BE different.
Engaging in Social media is like being in a toxic relationship, you wouldn’t take this abuse from a lover why invite it in your life through X?
Curate you algorithm, keep away from toxic accounts and don’t engage with anything that’s going to make you upset .