@lozengeluv@turtlehateacc@microchipfish Even if you don't remember their entire description, you remember bits and pieces of it. That's how the brain works. maybe not in that moment but while recalling it you will
@lozengeluv@turtlehateacc@microchipfish actions speak far louder than words so him grabbing her and then going to cross the street is an obvious assumption that he needs help crossing...if she was uncomfortable she could have left at the start or said she couldn't help him.
@lozengeluv@turtlehateacc@microchipfish every person that has ever been chased or grabbed in public can remember details of who grabbed them bcs that's what the brain does first is remember them. The fight or flight response comes after.
@lozengeluv@turtlehateacc@microchipfish i never said she wasn't scared. but for her to help him then get tired of it after a min is crazy and that's where i cannot say she wasn't scared she's just ignorant.
@lozengeluv@turtlehateacc@microchipfish i mean usually when someone random grabs you the first thing you do is look at who it is. regardless if your scared or not lmao
@lozengeluv@turtlehateacc@microchipfish to him speaking up was him grabbing her and taking her to cross the street with him. so if she did say something he has already implied he needed help and would make that known after responding to her.
@lozengeluv@turtlehateacc@microchipfish did i not just respond to u and say the woman may have been scared yes but the man was terrified. neglect is one of the biggest causes of disabled/elderly death
@lozengeluv@turtlehateacc@microchipfish obviously if she asked him what going on he would then tell her bcs to them that's not asking for help since she started the conversation. i'm saying he's not going to outwardly ask for help but he may imply it.
@lozengeluv@turtlehateacc@microchipfish I feel like the walking stick and glasses speaks volumes. Maybe she should learn to read the situation more thoroughly
@lozengeluv@turtlehateacc@microchipfish And i said that even after he touched her when she turned around and saw him and his disability she should've been able to read the situation for what it was. A man asking for help.
@lozengeluv@turtlehateacc@microchipfish okay and your the 15% of the population that doesn't watch fights... usually the majority is wins so in perspective your actually the weird one.
@lozengeluv@turtlehateacc@microchipfish how am i coming up with a hypothetical telling you how most of the shows went? If she didn't see him she could've asked him what he touched her for or turned around. She would then see his walking cane and that he needed help.