Bibi 🧸

[ѵi૮ƭσ૨ @keoveey]

Purple Hibiscus by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie gave me one of my wildest reading experiences. At some point, I was living in their house in Enugu.

[Big Timi @OrevaZSN]

A refund should not take 8 days. You took my money in 2 seconds, so don’t tell me you need 8 days to return it. If you can take my money instantly, you can return it instantly.

[Erastus Uso @UsoErastus]

Deep down, I hope I do this Love and Marriage thing so well that my kids aspire to have something like that

[Sparkle💫 @Neliswa_Nelli]

My nervous system doesn't tolerate yelling or arguing. Speak to me calmly, or don't speak to me at all

[Juancho Arciniega @4juancho8]

La adultez es aguantar veinte problemas serios en silencio y luego colapsar porque se cayó una cuchara.

[jonzing. @ehisssss]

so this adulting thing, there's no like.. midterm?

like it's everyday???????

[yimika. @yimikaaaa]

one of my red flags is the inability to act normal until a convo is had or an apology is given idc

[tido bling @tiido_bling]

how do i explain to people that i can just slip into my nonverbal mood and it has nothing to do with them.

[maya @mayareminders]

sometimes you just have to be like “I do not deserve this regardless” instead of trying to analyze & understand

[Nunnie The G @NunnieTheG]

Y'all wanna be toxic soooo bad. Meanwhile, I'm tryna kill every toxic trait within me. I don't wanna argue, be disrespectful, act cold, or question love.
I wanna be gentle, accountable, emotionally intelligent, supportive, and soft with my person.
Real love deserves real peace.

[Dee! @Khadee__jatu]

I pray I marry into a family filled with love. It’s so important to me to have loving in-laws, I want to marry into a family where I feel like they are my second parents and siblings.

[mamamoo @thelovelyMC]

you are your own garden. speak kindly. rest often. bloom gently

[tumblr babe @trapezoidmouth]

Friends too!

[Enomfon @mydearenomfon]

“Sitting with your feelings” means when you feel something , sadness, anger, jealousy, whatever emotion, instead of immediately distracting yourself, numbing it, or reacting, you just let yourself feel it without running from it.

You notice it, you acknowledge it, you question it, ask yourself where it’s coming from. You don’t grab your phone, pick a fight, or eat a whole bag of chips or a big bowl of ice cream to avoid it.

You just stay present with the discomfort until you understand it better. It sounds simple but most people have never done it even once.

[Ian Schwartzman @Ian_Schwartzman]

You’re better off starting and fine tuning as you go, instead of fine tuning so much that you never get started.

[Asanwa @Chizitere_xyz]

The hardest psychological pill you will ever have to swallow is realizing you are a victim of the "Mirror Fallacy."

​You keep getting betrayed, used, and disappointed by people, and you sit around wondering why you have such bad luck. You don't have bad luck. You have a massive projection problem.
​You keep looking at other people and expecting them to have your heart, your work ethic, and your sense of loyalty. You assume that because you would never lie to them, they would never lie to you. Because you would give them your last dollar, they would do the same.

People do not operate with your moral compass. Stop projecting your own character onto people who have repeatedly shown you they operate on pure survival and selfishness. You are breaking your own heart by expecting lions to eat grass just because you are a vegetarian.

[Nic ⭐️ @nchls_b]

If I was an elephant in a room and no one addressed me I’d be upset too, first of all it took a lot for me to fit in this room don’t act like I’m not here???

[Maxwell Maduka 🛠️ @Max_Sengu]

Do it well, do it really really well, Excellence is an advantage.