Expecting a woman to nurture you while you're simultaneously emotionally exhausting her is pure delusion. And yet here he is. Wanting her soft, warm, and endlessly available, while running her completely into the ground. Wanting her to show up as his safe place while never once asking what she needs to feel safe. Wanting to be held by hands he's been slowly emptying for months and genuinely confused about why the well is running dry. You cannot drain someone and expect them to keep producing.
Nobody has died from being single.
Again, absolutely nobody has died purely and solely from being single.
But many people have died and had their lives irreparably destroyed solely from just marrying the wrong person.
I will not explain.
If you don’t get it, pls don’t bother.
Stop calling it ‘love’ when it’s really just convenience with good chemistry. Real love shows up when it’s inconvenient…when you’re tired, when you’re broke, when the feelings have gone quiet and all that’s left is the choice. Anybody can love you on a good day.
The one who stays consistent on the boring days, the slow days, the days nothing exciting is happening. That is who you build with. Stop chasing excitement. Start chasing consistency.
Be guided.