Dead national conscience. No evidence of humanity across the board.
The leadership we have experienced in this country is a direct reflection of the kind of people we are.
Selfish, arrogant, and painfully presumptuous.
The idol of money is so pervasive that even Christians don’t want to have real friends. We want to have friends that take us to the next level
God will judge everyone willingly peddling this doctrine that destroys every Christian virtue possible.
God has to help us.
Me scrolling through my TL, reading takes from both sides of this Pharmacists vs Doctors brouhaha. Premium entertainment for me. Promised myself not to get rage baited by nonsense this year.
“Low effort friends,” meanwhile the whole time they may be at rock bottom, fighting for their lives, but still forcing themselves to show up because they don’t want to be those friends who always ruin plans or make excuses.
I have said it before: money makes you a better friend, partner, sibling, parent, colleague, etc. When you don’t have money, you cannot bring your thoughts to life. You turn down invites from friends to avoid embarrassment, and lowkey they begin to think you don’t like them like that.
Okay, then you decide to show up with the little you have, probably because your friends insisted that it doesn’t matter and they understand your condition. But you get there and realize everyone came correct, and suddenly you begin to feel small. You start overthinking everything; how you look, what you wore, what you ordered, what you could or couldn’t contribute.
I know we are all assuming because we do not know these people’s stories. However, it is not nice to label strangers “low effort friends” just from a video they made and posted themselves.
Also, if you are not liquid enough to comfortably show up for an event or gathering like this, I strongly advise that you don’t show up tbh. They will still see you as a bad or low effort friend anyway. But they’ll be alright. Only you truly know your story, your struggles, and how hard you are trying to stay afloat.
I couldn’t eat well for the first 2-3 days 😂
Tried cooking and burnt a whole pot of beans. I was trying to eat rice one afternoon and my hands were shaking. I just dropped the food and started crying 😂😂😂
Chai. Never again sha. I’m not giving any man such emotional power over me again. Na since then I turn Agojie.
I’ll love you but I won’t give you the power to break me like that again. Never again.
Please stop pretending that being a “Good Christian Woman” means you don’t have messy thoughts, a temper, or a sex drive that doesn’t just turn off because you’re single. We have created this plastic version of faith that leaves no room for the actual human experience. You can love Jesus and still be frustrated with your life. You can be faithful and still feel like you are failing. God wants your messy, raw, unfiltered honesty, not the curated Sunday morning mask you wear to feel acceptable or validated online.
Every time the lord entreats you, that experience never leaves you the same way.
It’s either you become more yielded to him, or you become more hardened.
Man: Pharm, i’m here to check my blood sugar level.
Me: Hope you fasted like i advised you to?
Man: Yes i did.
Me: Okay great, let me get the glucometer.
Man: Wait o, I want to ask a question.
Me: Okay…please do.
Man: My daughter refused to eat her cerelac this morning before school and insisted that i join her before she eats. I took some spoons, so she can eat cos we were already late. Will it affect it?
Me: